"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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DJnoob

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after you first time having sex? or did you still have the same mindset as a virgin even after sex. What changes did you notice about yourself
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DJnoob said:
after you first time having sex? or did you still have the same mindset as a virgin even after sex. What changes did you notice about yourself
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Dont become fooled by sex. Alot of people turn into even more AFC then they were in the beginning because they want it more and more after they have had it once. One friend even went to making a big scene in front of his girlfriends whole family because she wasnt giving it up to him. Alot of people stay the same,alot become more relaxed temporarily,and alot turn into even bigger AFC then they were to start its a mixed boat.
 
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I'm still a virgin but I have the itching suspision that it doesn't change you.
Success with girls opens your mind to what's possible and gives you some bragging rights (like yay I can finaly join in when the convo is about sex) but approach anxiety won't go away.

That's what all my friends who aren't virgins anymore have told me and it makes perfect sence to me: It's like the first time you get drunk, high, or make out. I remember the first time I got a girl down to her undies and sucked her titties. As cool as it was it wasn't a revolution or anything.

Better to work on who you are etc. than trying to get into some draws by any means nescesary.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Amigu said:
Better to work on who you are etc. than trying to get into some draws by any means nescesary.
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Wise words. When it comes to women, desperation never solves anything.
 
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