"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DJnoob

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after you first time having sex? or did you still have the same mindset as a virgin even after sex. What changes did you notice about yourself
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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blinkwatt

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DJnoob said:
after you first time having sex? or did you still have the same mindset as a virgin even after sex. What changes did you notice about yourself
Dont become fooled by sex. Alot of people turn into even more AFC then they were in the beginning because they want it more and more after they have had it once. One friend even went to making a big scene in front of his girlfriends whole family because she wasnt giving it up to him. Alot of people stay the same,alot become more relaxed temporarily,and alot turn into even bigger AFC then they were to start its a mixed boat.
 

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I'm still a virgin but I have the itching suspision that it doesn't change you.
Success with girls opens your mind to what's possible and gives you some bragging rights (like yay I can finaly join in when the convo is about sex) but approach anxiety won't go away.

That's what all my friends who aren't virgins anymore have told me and it makes perfect sence to me: It's like the first time you get drunk, high, or make out. I remember the first time I got a girl down to her undies and sucked her titties. As cool as it was it wasn't a revolution or anything.

Better to work on who you are etc. than trying to get into some draws by any means nescesary.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Amigu said:
Better to work on who you are etc. than trying to get into some draws by any means nescesary.
Wise words. When it comes to women, desperation never solves anything.
 
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