Did we sleep Together too soon?

[Sg]

Known her for a month, maybe a little more.
After sex 4 times on a work camping trip She asks this on the way home...
"I dont regret it, but do you think maybe we did it to soon,
I just dont want the fire to burn out."

Never encountered this before.
Tried to avoid it for the time, and made a quick joke about it.
Any ideas on what i should have said?

 

[DankNuggs]

******** for: Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free. She wishes she had lured you into a relationship. If you want one, prove to her the fire didn't go out, if you don't..well she was probably right..

 

[xblitz44x]

DankNuggs nailed that. Its ashame that women feel like they need to nail you down to a relationship before they can fvck you. It's ashame for them, and inconvenient for us. What she said makes absoutely no sense in plain English, just see it for what it is and forget about it.

-Blitz

 

[JohnJones]

Just concurring with the above posters. If you want a relationship, though, you're in the driver's seat.

 

[xblitz44x]

Good good point. That's so true. Most women feel they have to validate their actions by pulling that "I knew we'd get into a relationship anyway, so that's why I slept with him".

 

[MDgood]

Yep, makes sense. She used sex to get into a relationship with you. Now you gotta ask yourself: How many other guys has she done the same thing with? She's probably been around the block a bit, you may want to check your crotch for visitors. Also, look for her to be insecure, and be prepared to endure all the whining that accompanies that.

 

[xblitz44x]

MD,

I don't think he has to be that crazy with it. I don't know if I've ever encountered a girl who DIDN'T think that sex comes after a relationship. Even the ones who had sex first, felt vulnerable and that they may have made a mistake. I don't think that's any indication of a woman having many sexual partners or of her insecurity.

Plus, she didn't use sex to get into a relationship. She had sex first, WITHOUT baiting him in, and now she feels vulnerable that he can bail at any second and leave her with regrets. I don't think that's insecurity, just social brainwashing.

-Blitz

 

[seulaxplaya]

yeah if u two are looking for a relationship then it was pretty early to start sleeping together. if u do want a relationship then just lay off the sexual escapades, because after so much sex thats what the relationship becomes and it eventually ends in shambles.

 

[Player_Supreme]

"Well susie, I don't believe in waiting for things. We are two adults here and playing stupid waiting games is for kids. We found each other attractive, and we went with it. Now as far as burning out too soon, first of all that has nothing to do with waiting a year and a day to explore whether or not we are compatible, secondly only time will tell just how compatible we really are...do you feel me(susie)?"

By adding the last 4 words she has no choice but to agree. Her first test has been delt with.