Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Did this Super Bowl winning head coach just trade in his flabby armed wife for a new?

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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He is supposedly moving closer to be with his ex-gf.

Did the ex-gf dump him before he became rich and famous and now is looking to settle since her SMV is peaked?
 

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Actually, Payton had been daily commuting from Dallas to New Orleans with a private jet, which is about 2 hours (total commute from his home to the Saints facility) each way - and in which he obviously can be in contact with the rest of the coaches & management by phone, and can review film or whatever on his laptop - something he couldn't do when he was driving his 40 minute commute when he was in the New Orleans area.

It's interesting looking at the contrast with Payton and the QB Drew Brees, who really is a man of character, very happily married to his wife, who seems to be continually pumping out cute little kids that Brees can kiss after winning the Super Bowl, making all the commentators go "aw..." :p

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gTfNoH1Hngw
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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