"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Did the girlfriend cross the line? How to bring it up the DJ way?

shark

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Last week I was playing tennis with a friend. My girlfriend happend to be there and she walked over. First thing she said was that i sucked and i should stick to my other main sport (basketball). She said it somewhat jokingly but was serious. She's atheltic so she's into this stuff. We make fun of eachother all the time, but my friend was right there. it was somewhat embarassing.

Do i mention it? if so how, or is this just not a big deal and i should forget it..hmm
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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shark

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hah, i don't suck. I wouldn't say i'm great but i'm not bad. But still, feel like it may have been a little disrespectful

then again, thats her personlity. She teases me, i tease her..i'll just deal with it..not a big deal.
 

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Her: You suck, you should stick to your main sport.

Me: O you'll be sucking on something tonight. Just wait, we'll see who sucks then! hehe
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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brenbaus

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let it go dude, if you bring it up it will cause more trouble than its really worth
 

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yeah you should dump her for not stroking your ego, She should understand how fragile you are and that you need constant validation from others to make you feel good. Also, that when in front of your friends she should make an extra effort to pump your ego up. Yeah she is awful....

Damn foot fault!!!!

Ball into the net!!!

Your the best honey, better than that a-rod guy, way better, for sure.
 

escobar04

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how is doing something like that is crossing the line?

unles you have zero sense of humor or live in the Puritan times then that shouldnt be a problem

be easy!
 
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