"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Did the game increase number of guys using sosuave?

everywomanshero

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This thread comes up sometimes, like the "game" increased the number of guys using sosuave. Logically, I would think this is true, that more guys would search online and find this site and use it. (this would be a good thing if the numbers have increased).

However, when I looked on alexa sosuave's traffic doesn't seem much higher than it did in 2004. Is this the case or is alexa just a piece?

Best case scnerio the number of hits haven't changed, because guys are having so much success they just don't log on often :)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Skilla_Staz

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What?
 

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I think he is referring to Neil Strauss' book, "The Game".

I'm sure it has increased traffic here some. For me, I've been coming here for years but never posted. I read "The Game" back in July and signed up and started posting soon after. Although I'm not really a fan of MM, the book itself is entertaining as hell and it did respark my interest in sosuave.
 
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