Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Did the game increase number of guys using sosuave?

everywomanshero

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This thread comes up sometimes, like the "game" increased the number of guys using sosuave. Logically, I would think this is true, that more guys would search online and find this site and use it. (this would be a good thing if the numbers have increased).

However, when I looked on alexa sosuave's traffic doesn't seem much higher than it did in 2004. Is this the case or is alexa just a piece?

Best case scnerio the number of hits haven't changed, because guys are having so much success they just don't log on often :)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Skilla_Staz

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What?
 

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I think he is referring to Neil Strauss' book, "The Game".

I'm sure it has increased traffic here some. For me, I've been coming here for years but never posted. I read "The Game" back in July and signed up and started posting soon after. Although I'm not really a fan of MM, the book itself is entertaining as hell and it did respark my interest in sosuave.
 
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