"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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did "stuff" for the first time last night

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Hey,i think i did pretty well last night... i had my ex gf sleep over,and minutes after getting into bed,we made out.. lasted ages 2am-7am lol.. didn't f*ck close,but i took her top and bra off,played with her tits for ages,and it ended up her giving me a handy the whole way,i tried to get her pants off.. but she laughed and said "nup next time.." lol,how do i get around that? cause it kinda annoyed me,and she gives **** handys how would i maybe get her to give me head? im new to all this,so i dunno how to ask her for one or anything lol
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sheeeit, don't you have to be at least thirteen to join this forum?

Kid, you had a girl in bed for 5 fukcing hours without managing to escalate past titty play. Something is very wrong there. Yes, making out is a very fun activity in itself and should be savoured, but you also have to remember that it is primarily a means to an end. The ultimate goal should be to make a woman so horny that there is absolutely no resistance.

Think about it, if you have a period of 5 hours, you can afford to be extremely subtle in your escalations. You don't just go from sucking face to yanking her pants off, no no no. Learn about a woman's body and how to make it feel good. You should be making her so horny at each stage that she doesn't even notice you escalating.
 
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Did you watch Harry Potter while rubbing her tits bro?
 
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im 18 man,and no.. i had the harry potter soundtrack from the movie playing in my cd player,it was hot
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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if you's are "men" and get sex,why are you's still here? theres not all that much to learn,and why would you crack jokes when someone is asking how to escalate,jealous? prolly,i swear sosuave is full of gays
 
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dude to esclate past her petty crap just keep trying for the pants.. shyt this one girl which happend to be a friends sister 0.o heh ANYWAY man i tried to get her pants off like 20 times while we were makeing out saying stuff while i was makeing out

"c'mon i can tell you want it"
"lets go to my room"

about the 30th time.. she couldn't take it anymore and was like lets go! long story short its all about being persistant
 
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