Did something hard today and I hope most men follow this

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

FYI this isn’t the Japanese hibachi girl lol.

Met a girl and I was vulnerable because she was a young light skinned Latina/half Asian lol. In addition, sex was good, she sucked my dvck a lot, and she never bished or displayed any masculine behavior.

However, she had more red flags than a Chinese parade. Multiple tattoos, student loan debt with a low income job, would make dumb decisions based on emotion, didn’t want children and planned on getting her tubes tied by 25, kept talking about cutting her hair short, her priorities weren’t straight, and I could see her ballooning in years because of her bad health habits.

Now when I first met this girl, I only saw the tattoos and piece of ass lol. Your typical man would’ve just stuck with this girl until the red flag volcano erupted and retreat to this site to make a “save my relationship/marriage” thread about it lol. Instead, I bit the bullet and sent a consistent piece of ass away lol. Now, I know most men are incapable of doing this because red flags don’t just pop up out of nowhere in a relationship. You see these flags pretty early on and you choose to ignore them to keep the sex out of scarcity mindset.

A scarcity mindset makes us reactive, not proactive.

 

[Bokanovsky]

Sounds like a no brainer, not a difficult decision.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

Sounds like a no brainer, not a difficult decision.

it’s hard when you find “the fit” though lol

 

[SmoothHendrixPS2]

Why dismiss her totally if she is submissive to you and gives you benefits such as good sex? If you truly don't get turned on by her anymore, or she starts becoming difficult and looking for something more serious, than you can re evaluate whether you wanna keep her around. Nobody said you have to make her your girlfriend lol. I feel like a lot of guys end things way too quickly. It's good to be selective and take no bull****. But I try to get the most out of the girl until that "Volcano erupts". Who cares if it erupts as long as you have other options and you aren't emotionally attached or spending money on her. The volcano erupting is not that hard to deal with if you are entertaining other girls, and are emotionally indifferent.

 

[Gamisch]

Why dismiss her totally if she is submissive to you and gives you benefits such as good sex? If you truly don't get turned on by her anymore, or she starts becoming difficult and looking for something more serious, than you can re evaluate whether you wanna keep her around. Nobody said you have to make her your girlfriend lol. I feel like a lot of guys end things way too quickly. It's good to be selective and take no bull****. But I try to get the most out of the girl until that "Volcano erupts". Who cares if it erupts as long as you have other options and you aren't emotionally attached or spending money on her. The volcano erupting is not that hard to deal with if you are entertaining other girls, and are emotionally indifferent.

You are absolutely right, but it takes a really strong mind to separate love and lust. I actually kinda respect OP for walking away knowing the flesh is weaker than the mind at this moment.

Over time the bond with this woman becomes stronger, investment becomes bigger and walking away becomes harder.

Or you end up like me , getting her pregnant and now you are stuck for life...

 

[SmoothHendrixPS2]

You are absolutely right, but it takes a really strong mind to separate love and lust. I actually kinda respect OP for walking away knowing the flesh is weaker than the mind at this moment.

Over time the bond with this woman becomes stronger, investment becomes bigger and walking away becomes harder.

Or you end up like me , getting her pregnant and now you are stuck for life...

Sheesh that last one hit me hard lol. But yea I respect OP for it as well. It's generally more Alpha to totally dismiss a women you already ****ed. My approach is more of a slow drip of dismissing them which can be considered manipulative and selfish. To each his own.