"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Dole

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Hi everyone I recently started reading article's on this page. My friend reffered me to this site and said it helped him out alot and in reality it has helped me clear my views about women as well.

Before I was introduced to this website I met this babe.
A little about me:
190 cm's ( 6'3 - 6'4 )
185 pounds
darker then average ( eastern european )
very handsome ( according to girls )

The story goes like this:
This girl fell for me and I couldn't believe that a babe like that ( 10/10 ) would fall for someone this quick. It was rediculous to me because first day I met her ( at university ) she already started flirting with me punching me calling me names like bull****ter and **** like that. Second day she started smoking weed with me and she takes my number cause she wanted to text me since we where in a room full of people at university. So she started talking about how some guy is not suppose to know that was smoked weed I just replyed to one or two text messages and then I ignored texting her back after that, all of us that where in the room decided to go out and get some food and ****. We where high and we flirted some more she was saying how I am a bad influence on her and she would ask me what I was thinking about at certain moment's **** like that she wanted me to open up and tell her that I like her but it didn't phase me and I played it cool. Third day we get high again i ask her what are her plans this weekend she's like you tell me what I am doing this weekend. GREAT SUCCESS!
Friday night I meet up with her at a lounge and I wasn't dressed to go out and she started bagging me to go to the club with her and to come out. So I finally agreed that I am going to go home and get changed **** didn't work out that night because of her ride I told her that I was going to my friend's house to get drunk with friend's to make it look like I was busy but I went home to bed lol. Saturday night we go to the club we get drunk dance make out I feel her up all night anyways for 3 hours straight we where grinding making out going to the booth's and **** like that. It was time to go we where both hammered out of our mind's and we leave the club leaving her friend who's phone died behind in the club by her self. I didn't end up taking her home. Come's sunday night and we are suppose to go out again to a party at a club that my friend was hosting so she agreed to that on friday. I talk to her sunday morning she said she doesn't remember what happend on saturday night. So sunday night we meet up for a pre drink at my friend's house and she is acting weird and **** when she talk's to me it's brief and doesn't even look at me for more then 5 seconds. Fool I am I start panicking, I was very confused on what's going on. To top it all off her and her friend told us that they are not going to stay long at the party and are going back to the club that we where at last night because she forgot something. Anyways my friend was at this pre drink and he love's to mack on the girl's that I try and hook up with ( he does that to everyone else ) becaues that's hes game he steal's other guy's girls because he hits on the girls. then a guy such as my self gets jealous and make a big fuss and he end's up getting her. So I told him straight up screw off you always do this and he doesn't wanna listen and never listens. I don't drive so he offered them a ride to the club. We all leave together and he speed's off and goes off some where with this girl, her friend, and another guy. I lost it. I got to the club before him and waited for him at the door. When he got there I knocked he's ass out infront of the girl's. I did it for two reason's: 1) she like's that gangsta sh1t cause I didn't wanna bother you with full detail's but I just know she like's that and 2) I was sick of this guy screwin me with girl's and I had to put a stop to this. So I couldn't go inside the party because that guy's brother was hosting the event! The girl was asking me what I am going to do, she wanted me to go to the club with her after her friend was done at this party. I told her that I can't go inside and that she should go with me across the street and have a few drink's while her friend stay's at that lounge party. She wanted to but her friend from saturday night was being a c0ck block and was telling her **** like "You are my best friend but do what ever you want" and she wouldn't wanna leave and the girl ended up going inside with her best friend. This ***** was mad because of what happend saturday night. Ok what ever I get this other girl to pick me up and we go to a different club. I sent her a text message asked her if she was mad and **** and she's like no why would I be mad blah blah then I told her where I was at she never replyed never came that night. Next day she send's me a text message asking if everything was alright. I replyed few hours later blah blah didn't talk to her much that day. Next day I see her I apologise to her what happend and explained to her what it was all about. She asked me some question's about the guy I punched like how old he is and where he work's. I got phone call's text messages from my friend's saying that the guy is mackin on my girl most of the night and she was hugging him and was around him the whole time. But this guy is ur alpha male he's dangerous he know's girl's he can write a book about it. So I wasn't worried cause it was probably him around her the whole time wanting revenge. Nothing happend between them 2 cause I heard that she turned him down. So I asked the girl to dinner and she accepts. Next day at school i make a rookie mistake and ignore her when I saw her in caffeteria at school. I come back later that day at caffeteria she's sitting with some black guy alone. I text her later that night asking her if we are still going she's like You wanna go to dinner but you can't say hi at school? So i explained my self once againt o her told her first time i was busy and was going to say Hi but never got to it and then that she was sitting with some guy second time I saw her. I see her the next day she say's she cant do dinner because she has to dye her hair. Anyways she said we can do something friday so I see her friday ask her what's up she said she will be at the club with her friend and at the same club my friend is having a birthday party so I told her I will see her dere. She come's and I know she seen me first and what now but I was with a friend and different girl's. Been at the club for a while now like half an hour me and her still haven't talked she walked around the bar that I was standing at and she walked by me at the washroom's she walked really quickly i gave her a little kick to get her attention she didn't wanna turn around. Some more time passes by she come's and says hi I ask her when did she get here she's like don't play that **** you saw me and didn't wanna come say hi. To my luck she knew one of the girl's and I think she is jealous of her. She started questiong me about her and how I know her and what I think of her. Anyways she would chill with me here and there and go for a walk with her friend around the club and keep coming back. She has to leave early come's back me and her are talking I ask her if she like's surprises she says yes and her friend interupts us, after she was done with her friend I tryed giving her one of those quick kisses u know that she's not expecting it and she turn's her head away. At the same time they have to go I am like give me a kiss on the cheek she's like no u give me and her friend pulls her away. My boy here who's like 30 says that she likes me but she's playing games. So saturday I don't call her and **** and basically I ignored her after that for a bit. She hasn't text me or called me we say hi to each other at school but u can feel that there's no feelings no more. It feels akward I must say. Few days passed by while everything cooled down I came where they were studying and she was't there she comes and shes like hey how r u and i just answer 'good' and ignore her she went to caff meet up with someone. My friend was telling me how she met someone on saturday and keeps talking about him. What do I do?

Sorry my sentence structure is not very good. I am a math/physics guy and I am taking engineering at uni. So don't mind my bad sentence structure or spelling as I am don't have time right now to proof read.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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yama600rr

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how about some advice buddy, shorting your fvucking thread a little, no one wants to read all that crap!!! take it easy
 

sav

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i skimmed through your post and by the sounds of it, u showed your cards too early... she knows ur playing games and is playing games too... drop the act, if ur nto a gangster dont act like one...

that dude deserved to get knocked out but u shouldnt have done it infront of that girl...

and yeah her interest dropped... so move on.... forget about her for now, and she may come back around ;)
 

Dole

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thanks sav
that gangsta stuff is no act i am associate with bad ppl and good ppl i keep a balance of the two if that makes sense

sorry for the big post and all but I wanted to fil in the blanks so u get a better picture lol
 
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You are a chump!!! Fighting over a hor is the same as fighting over being the first in line in the torture chamber!!!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Move on. She aint worth your time, and she sounds pretty immature to me. Sounds like you're looking for a relationship, and by the looks of it, she isn't.
 
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