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eastside562

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After texting heavily for 1 week. We went on a first date and some things i noticed. 1.She dosent look away when i stare at her 2. She took her shoes off and crossed her leggsand faced me whilesitting beside me. 3. She dosent end the date but wait for me to end it. 4. She ask alot of questions likefavorite music,tv show,super hero ect.. 5. Laughs at my jokes when thier mean. 6. Dosent move when i kissed her cheek. 7. Text me 2 hours after our date. Later thqt night She said i make her feel so special and took a pic for me than posted it on her facebook. It is on private so i cant see what she wrote but she recieved 15 likes while her other pics has like 1 or 0 likes. After this i tried my best not to contact her to not seem too needy. id text her every other couple of days she would reply to most but sometimes she wouldent. We made plans to meet on thursday but out of frustration of her beung busy this week i cancelled and told her next week would be better. She said ok are you sure and i pretty much gave a bull**** exscuse. She just seem busy this week and i dont know if she lost interest or is actually busy. Becuase she would initiate contact like the first week but second week she didnt initiate any.
 

TheSlasher

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Ah... the familiar situation I also go through often. I still don't know about this much, so I am still working on gaining more experience. Let's see what the more experience guys have to say,
 

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eastside562 said:
After texting heavily for 1 week.
Stopped reading after ^^^^^. By you getting her phone number she obviously has some sort of interest in you, hell she might want even want to give you some. However, women (due to societal norms and they're own wacky behavior,) women need a justification as to WHY they feel the way they do. After all they don't want to become emotionally committed and physically intimate with just anybody. With that being said, during that week of "heavy texting," and coupled with the date, you said and/or did not only one, but a series of things that turned her off.

Even though y'all aren't going to listen, y'all have got to stop being "text bots," with these chicks. Just like you wouldn't give chicks a gang of phone time, you don't give her a gang of text time neither. If the texting is going long, like I'd say three minutes, (and three minutes is literally an arbitrary time frame I just come up with,) tell her to call you and speak to her on the phone for another ten minutes. That's thirteen minutes of your attention you're giving this chick, (during which you should have secured a date,) and in those thirteen minutes, you should said anything that was pertinent to maintaining and/or raising her interest. Any more conversation will only go on to damage your cause and cause her to start to lose interest. Our resident "Relationship Observationalist," Harry Wilimington offers more insight on the subject in these podcasts.

http://www.stoplosingwomen.com/page/15/

Episode 11: Stop Being So Darned Honest with Her

http://www.stoplosingwomen.com/page/14/

Episode 15: Stop Being So Available + 5 Ways to Become Comfortable With It

http://www.stoplosingwomen.com/page/12/

Episode 33: Stop Appearing So Needy (Harry Answers a Listener’s Message

http://www.stoplosingwomen.com/page/12/

Episode 35: Stop Talking So Much on Dates (You’re Not THAT Interesting)

http://www.stoplosingwomen.com/page/6/

Episode 96: Stop Being Afraid She’ll Forget You

http://www.stoplosingwomen.com/page/3/

Episode 123: Interested Girl Goes Cold – Now What? (Stop Losing Women Mailbag #12)

http://www.stoplosingwomen.com/page/2/

Episode 133: ADVANCE GAME – Training Her to NOT Hear Back From You Right Away
 

goldengoose

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Maximus Rex said:
Stopped reading after ^^^^^. By you getting her phone number she obviously has some sort of interest in you, hell she might want even want to give you some. However, women (due to societal norms and they're own wacky behavior,) women need a justification as to WHY they feel the way they do. After all they don't want to become emotionally committed and physically intimate with just anybody. With that being said, during that week of "heavy texting," and coupled with the date, you said and/or did not only one, but a series of things that turned her off.

Even though y'all aren't going to listen, y'all have got to stop being "text bots," with these chicks. Just like you wouldn't give chicks a gang of phone time, you don't give her a gang of text time neither. If the texting is going long, like I'd say three minutes, (and three minutes is literally an arbitrary time frame I just come up with,) tell her to call you and speak to her on the phone for another ten minutes. That's thirteen minutes of your attention you're giving this chick, (during which you should have secured a date,) and in those thirteen minutes, you should said anything that was pertinent to maintaining and/or raising her interest. Any more conversation will only go on to damage your cause and cause her to start to lose interest. Our resident "Relationship Observationalist," Harry Wilimington offers more insight on the subject in these podcasts.

http://www.stoplosingwomen.com/page/15/

Episode 11: Stop Being So Darned Honest with Her

http://www.stoplosingwomen.com/page/14/

Episode 15: Stop Being So Available + 5 Ways to Become Comfortable With It

http://www.stoplosingwomen.com/page/12/

Episode 33: Stop Appearing So Needy (Harry Answers a Listener’s Message

http://www.stoplosingwomen.com/page/12/

Episode 35: Stop Talking So Much on Dates (You’re Not THAT Interesting)

http://www.stoplosingwomen.com/page/6/

Episode 96: Stop Being Afraid She’ll Forget You

http://www.stoplosingwomen.com/page/3/

Episode 123: Interested Girl Goes Cold – Now What? (Stop Losing Women Mailbag #12)

http://www.stoplosingwomen.com/page/2/

Episode 133: ADVANCE GAME – Training Her to NOT Hear Back From You Right Away


Listen to this stuff and you WILL lose women lol.
 

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The girl is giving good signs. What you should do is close the deal as soon as possible(sex her). Listen to Espi get more girls on your team.
 

Don-Kong

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Stop playing games. Be natural and stop thinking about it too much.
TRUST that you are the ****. If you dont know it, then how will she. CONFIDENCE BRAH, you got this yo
 
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