"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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did she lose intereset in me ?

don juan de me

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I am NEW FOR THE GAME ? SO GIVE ME STRONG ADVICE PLEASE .

I know one girl who was very into me 4 months ago , and she was sending me text everyday and say ''good morning sweetie'' with a picture of red flower and we hang out 4 times. First nothing happen , second went to a cafe and had coffee together with one kiss on her cheek and a hug , third we make out for half an hour with a little massage , the forth one we almost intimate with each other but without entering in her. She send me a text saying she was happy with the last shot and she says thank you for the sexual experience.

Now ( while am writing this to you ) , what drive me crazy is that ( by the way I am not NEEDY / DESPERATE but I am EAGER to know what is the reason behind this ) she stops sending me text everyday in the morning with red flower ( WHY ? ) but still communicate with me almost everyday asking about how am I doing and stuff like that ( without feeling she is eager to hang out with me again ). Did she lose interest in me or attraction fade away . And if so , how can I regain that state of interest and restore that HUGE attraction to me one more time ( making her want me so bad ) . How can I elevate interest level as before after it was lowered ?

one more thing , one time i asked her out but she said i cant because of her parents and stuff like that . after that i ignored her for a week maybe and she text me saying why are mad at me ? i said i was mad bc i really wanna hang out with you and i feel good beside you and then she thanks me for this compliment and nothing happened afterwords .

then talk to her a bit for almost a month ( texting ) and from that scene i dont feel her interest level going up .

Another thing is that I know her sister more than a year now compared to this girl , her sister sees me as a friend but this girl sees me as a lover . What do you think is the reason . And can I make her sister sees me as a lover ?

Sorry to make it so long but I want to make the picture clear for you

Thanks
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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don juan de me

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by the way , she just text me saying ( Hi ) .

What I have to REPLY . Do i show her much , low or high interest bc she seems still has good interest for me
 

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Her interest level does seem low, or at least much lower than before. When she was texting you good morning every day, did you always respond? Maybe you gave her too much attention and the challenge for her was over. Women are strange creatures for sure. Why didn't you have sex? What stopped you?
 

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She actually thanked you for the sexual experience? You mean the lack thereof?

OP, sorry to say it, but you hung out too much and didn't get sexual any of those times. Thanks to you, you are in the friendzone and your princess is in another castle.

Go ghost on her and move on. Judge's orders.

Case closed.
 
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