"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Did she give me her number?

felony

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Guys, this seems really silly and i may be really of the hooks but i thought i'd post and see how you guys would tackle the situation. I'll try to keep this brief.

Girl in uni, no past history - tried to # close her few times on off occassions in my spare time which failed for stupid reasons i'm not sure of! During the semester 'i think' she was showing more interest in me. On one occassion she borrowed something of mine, i gave her my # (for a change.. wtf! why not) said call me when your done and want to give it back. She bumped into me (no call) gave me my stuff, i'm not sure she took the # down into her cell phone cos i scribbled it on some paper.

Later, in a public forum on the internet for my uni subject she posted a strange reply to a topic which contained a number which seemed a lot like her phone number. "in the lecture which took us 18005556969 hours to learn.... what was...etc... "

Anyways was wondering how i approach this if it is a hidden no. I know it seems f'n stupid to begin with.. what would u guys do? Call and hang up? call and ask for HB? wtf? I'm thinking it could be a funny story whatever happens... but would like some advice on how you guys would approach this situation.... or turn it into something bloody hilarious!

> Irre: if you read this, long time no see bro, how was your lay trip to sydney?!?!?!?

take it easy fellas, i want everyone who views this thread to reply... even if you don't think your qualified or any of that ****... cos heck, something like this... hell anyone can have their say!!

cheers n live it up,
f.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Even if it WAS her number, I wouldn't call.. If she wants you to call her, she should stop being this damn subtle. Males don't pick up on subtleties.

It would seem pretty desperate to me if you would take a random number and tried to call it, just to see if it was her number.

So my advice would be: Don't call.
 

felony

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yeah bro,
you're right- its too stupid for words.

but what i'm going to do is call it and see if i can find out if it is her number or not.. i dun know if i remember and am near a pay phone or something i'll give it a buzz.

if it isn't then cool. if it is then wow, looks like i just found another chick without the full two bob.

What do you reckon about that? any better funnier plans? perhaps i could get creative and get some company to ring it or pretend its my home number or some ****... i dun know.. just messin with a few ideas before i go out... ah well enuff time spent thinking about this!

cheers mate,
take it easy.
 

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Originally posted by Big Pappy
Have you considered just asking her for her number?
He said he tried to #-close her a couple times but he got shut down.

Honestly, I believe that unless this is some high-school-azz-sh!t, if she wants you to have her number, she'd give it to you or at least tease you into asking for it, not hide it in some Da Vinci Code on a message board. :p

BTW borrowing stuff from you doesn't always mean "flirting." She could be tooling you. If she's asking to borrow class notes and stuff, suggest a study-date. Personally, though, I would've found a new girl some time ago.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Squirrels,

True that. I agree with most things you say on this forum, and believe me i'm not going to limit myself to this code making looney.

What i have to do is remember when i'm out or near a payphone to ring the number! haha cos it could be possibly funny either way, even if i just say "hi is HB there" to find out... without giving it away that it was i calling. Hey, lame i know, but the whole situation is a mess and i don't like things messy.

As for the Da Vinci code, have you read the novel? Fantastic book.
 

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Originally posted by felony
Squirrels,

True that. I agree with most things you say on this forum, and believe me i'm not going to limit myself to this code making looney.

What i have to do is remember when i'm out or near a payphone to ring the number! haha cos it could be possibly funny either way, even if i just say "hi is HB there" to find out... without giving it away that it was i calling. Hey, lame i know, but the whole situation is a mess and i don't like things messy.

As for the Da Vinci code, have you read the novel? Fantastic book.
Yes I have. Interesting stuff. :)
 
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