I met a girl at a pub last weekend and we seemed to hit it off. I noticed her right away but didn't really think twice since it was early and I had just met up with my friends. Later in the night she came up to me and started chatting it up. We talked for a good couple of hours off and on throughout the night.
I playing it cool, hanging out with my friends and she would come over and we'd talk, then I'd go back to my friends, then we'd talk again and so on and so on.
At the end of the night she asked me for my number and I said sure but you give me yours too. We exchanged numbers and that was it.
I called her 2 nights later(Sunday) to ask her out for drinks on Wednesday. She said sure so I told her I would call her wednesday night before I left.
Tuesday night I get a text message from her saying "I have to cancel tomorrow, call me tomorrow and I'll explain why". I called her the next day to see what was up and she didn't answer. Later that night I get another text message saying "My grandmother had a heart attack and I'm at the hospital, I will email or call you if I get a chance". And that was it, I havent heard back from her yet... I know its only the next day
My question is, do you think she made up the story to get out of the date?
Its definitly possible that it happened, and it seems like such a horrible cliche to say "I cant make our date, my grandma is in the hospital", to not be true. But why would she text message me and not just call to explain. How come she says she will either call or email me? Why email me? Why not just call?.
If she did make it up just to get out of the date, why did her feelings change so much from the night at the bar to now. She was all over me, she asked for my number before I asked for hers so she must of been interested. I know you're gonna say it was because she was drinking, which she was, but she wasn't wasted looking for a one night stand, she had to leave early to work the next day and left with her friends.
I think she made it up and I won't hear from her again. Should I try calling in a few days or just wait and see if she calls me and if not forget about her?
This is really bugging me not knowing if she made this up, what do you think happened?
I playing it cool, hanging out with my friends and she would come over and we'd talk, then I'd go back to my friends, then we'd talk again and so on and so on.
At the end of the night she asked me for my number and I said sure but you give me yours too. We exchanged numbers and that was it.
I called her 2 nights later(Sunday) to ask her out for drinks on Wednesday. She said sure so I told her I would call her wednesday night before I left.
Tuesday night I get a text message from her saying "I have to cancel tomorrow, call me tomorrow and I'll explain why". I called her the next day to see what was up and she didn't answer. Later that night I get another text message saying "My grandmother had a heart attack and I'm at the hospital, I will email or call you if I get a chance". And that was it, I havent heard back from her yet... I know its only the next day
My question is, do you think she made up the story to get out of the date?
Its definitly possible that it happened, and it seems like such a horrible cliche to say "I cant make our date, my grandma is in the hospital", to not be true. But why would she text message me and not just call to explain. How come she says she will either call or email me? Why email me? Why not just call?.
If she did make it up just to get out of the date, why did her feelings change so much from the night at the bar to now. She was all over me, she asked for my number before I asked for hers so she must of been interested. I know you're gonna say it was because she was drinking, which she was, but she wasn't wasted looking for a one night stand, she had to leave early to work the next day and left with her friends.
I think she made it up and I won't hear from her again. Should I try calling in a few days or just wait and see if she calls me and if not forget about her?
This is really bugging me not knowing if she made this up, what do you think happened?
