"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Did most of you used to be AFC beta doormats

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Ringleader41

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then some girl rejected you or broke your heart and you reformed yourself to what you are today
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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For me it was wanting to win a girl that got me searching on the Internet for tips. First I looked for phone tips, then found sosuave.
 
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I was brought up with the gentleman mentality and that being a nice guy was the way to go. I was a major chump all of my football teammates got lots of girls but my mom would tell me to keep being a nice guy.

My senior year of hs, I had twoitis, BOTH girls walked over me like the door mat I was. After they both shot me down., I went to prom with this girl who only went with me because I played football and after prom and graduation, I moved away to college, found Sosuave, kept staying in shape for college football and made it to the top 4 in the anti approach anxiety competition. Now I am back at home for the summer and I am bulking and taking summer classes at a local college.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Yes. I was mad for a girl and searched the web on how to attract her. Found this site. Dated the girl for 6 months and got action :rockon: Unfortunately we just didn't work out in the end.

Now I realized that it really isn't about tricks and tactics. It's about conquering your mind and working on yourself to the point that you're really confident and happy with your life even if there is women or no women in your life.

Before I based my happiness on having a girlfriend. I was so wrong. I came here and started reading the DJ Bible and the Book Of Pook. It impacted my life and gave me new perspective, not only about women, but in how life should be lived. If it wasn't for this site I wouldn't have taken out the girls I have taken out and wouldn't had any action. If it wasn't for the Book Of Pook I wouldn't have this date on Thursday with this hot blonde :yes:
 
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