"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Did I screwed it up?

udontknowme

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I think this guy that I like might have tried to ask me out the other day. When he founf out we both had the same day off, he was like "oh...we should go do something" and I was stupid and sorta turned it into a joke...and said yea, we can go to staples and buy notebooks, cuz I remembered he said he had to go buy stuff for school. Do you think he took my sarcasm as a bad sign? And if he did take it as a bad sign, then i guess its up to me to suggest something the next time, cuz he's sure as hell not gunna say anything again and risk feeling retarded again, right?
Did I screw it up?


*p.s. I'm a girl.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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governor

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no you haven't ruined it. he's interested and you like him, you're fine.
what did he say when you said that to make you feel like you ruined it?
what you said is fine, but maybe you should have followed through with...yes hanging out would be cool.
if he's not going to ask again, just ask him. it's no biggie.
good luck
 

Badmannaz

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guys are simple....

if your attractive and he likes you it's not screwed up... if you totally hurt his pride then maybe.... all you have to do is be like "so when are we going out?"


That's it that's how simple it is

I think alot of girls screw themselves over thinking too much about guys thinking we are complicated...were not
 
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