"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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FiNs2BeCaUgHt

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Hey guys, i'm new to this community, well not the GAME but website.
Anyways.. I have always played around with this girl in my classroom and I never knew she liked me, until her friend told me that she like me(Heh) Well my dumb ass said I didnt WHEN she asked me if i did(my dumbass..) And now.. she thinks im messing with her head, saying i am just playing her.. Well my question is.. how do I get her to know I like her? Sounds pretty dumb and AFCish ..but im real confused.(she thinks i'm just flirting when I say I like her)

Thanks alot..
-Chris
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Kevin Cass

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u didnt mess up man just forget about her friend and treat that girl the same way as always. then show her you like her instead of tell
 
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SinJester

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Same thing happened to me recently man. Only talked to her once on msn since we hooked up and haven't seen her anywhere. Thinkin it might be too late. Her friend was all like 'you 2 should so get together' and now she has completely changed her tune. Bad signs... Bad signs...
 
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