Hi. I met a girl at the beach the other day, and I really liked her, but I wonder what you guys think regarding my chances with her. Here is the situation:
I was at the beach alone, and ended up talking to this girl, who was alone too. After talking at the beach for about 3 hours, we exchanged phone numbers, and she said she had a commitment for that night, but still she said she would call me if she got out earlier, so we could hang out and do something. She did call, and we went out, had a drink, and talked for some time. She spoke most of the time (which I did not mind, as I was asking questions), but I really did not ask anything about her dating situation, or very personal stuff. Just a "getting to know somebody" type of conversation. Well, she had to wake up early the next day (or so she said), so I walked her to her apartment building, we said good bye, no kiss (only on the cheek in the "good bye" part), and talked about perhaps doing something one of these days (nothing specific and did not set a specific time for anything).
I called her the next day in the afternoon, but got her asnwering machine, and I did not leave a message. I really liked her, and I think she liked me (othewise she would not have called the first time), but I wonder if I was too nice in not making any moves on her when we went out. She is 27 and I am 32, by the way. The "moment" was never really present for making a move, so I thought it was better not to do it, and perhaps wait to move for the kill IF (and this is the big IF) I see her again, and a more appropriate setting develops.
What do you think I should do? I am thinking in not calling her at all, and pretty much let die the thing there unles she calls me (she must know I called, even though I did not leave any messages). That kind of sucks because I really liked her, but hey, I am not going to loose any sleep over it anyway, and I could meet another one just as I met this one. My post is mostly wondering if any of you guys (and girls, if they read this thing) have any insight in something that I may or may not have done properly, so I can correct for the next time. ;-)
Thanks!
I was at the beach alone, and ended up talking to this girl, who was alone too. After talking at the beach for about 3 hours, we exchanged phone numbers, and she said she had a commitment for that night, but still she said she would call me if she got out earlier, so we could hang out and do something. She did call, and we went out, had a drink, and talked for some time. She spoke most of the time (which I did not mind, as I was asking questions), but I really did not ask anything about her dating situation, or very personal stuff. Just a "getting to know somebody" type of conversation. Well, she had to wake up early the next day (or so she said), so I walked her to her apartment building, we said good bye, no kiss (only on the cheek in the "good bye" part), and talked about perhaps doing something one of these days (nothing specific and did not set a specific time for anything).
I called her the next day in the afternoon, but got her asnwering machine, and I did not leave a message. I really liked her, and I think she liked me (othewise she would not have called the first time), but I wonder if I was too nice in not making any moves on her when we went out. She is 27 and I am 32, by the way. The "moment" was never really present for making a move, so I thought it was better not to do it, and perhaps wait to move for the kill IF (and this is the big IF) I see her again, and a more appropriate setting develops.
What do you think I should do? I am thinking in not calling her at all, and pretty much let die the thing there unles she calls me (she must know I called, even though I did not leave any messages). That kind of sucks because I really liked her, but hey, I am not going to loose any sleep over it anyway, and I could meet another one just as I met this one. My post is mostly wondering if any of you guys (and girls, if they read this thing) have any insight in something that I may or may not have done properly, so I can correct for the next time. ;-)
Thanks!
