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Fairguy

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Hi. I met a girl at the beach the other day, and I really liked her, but I wonder what you guys think regarding my chances with her. Here is the situation:
I was at the beach alone, and ended up talking to this girl, who was alone too. After talking at the beach for about 3 hours, we exchanged phone numbers, and she said she had a commitment for that night, but still she said she would call me if she got out earlier, so we could hang out and do something. She did call, and we went out, had a drink, and talked for some time. She spoke most of the time (which I did not mind, as I was asking questions), but I really did not ask anything about her dating situation, or very personal stuff. Just a "getting to know somebody" type of conversation. Well, she had to wake up early the next day (or so she said), so I walked her to her apartment building, we said good bye, no kiss (only on the cheek in the "good bye" part), and talked about perhaps doing something one of these days (nothing specific and did not set a specific time for anything).

I called her the next day in the afternoon, but got her asnwering machine, and I did not leave a message. I really liked her, and I think she liked me (othewise she would not have called the first time), but I wonder if I was too nice in not making any moves on her when we went out. She is 27 and I am 32, by the way. The "moment" was never really present for making a move, so I thought it was better not to do it, and perhaps wait to move for the kill IF (and this is the big IF) I see her again, and a more appropriate setting develops.

What do you think I should do? I am thinking in not calling her at all, and pretty much let die the thing there unles she calls me (she must know I called, even though I did not leave any messages). That kind of sucks because I really liked her, but hey, I am not going to loose any sleep over it anyway, and I could meet another one just as I met this one. My post is mostly wondering if any of you guys (and girls, if they read this thing) have any insight in something that I may or may not have done properly, so I can correct for the next time. ;-)

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Sorry, could you refresh what "kino" means?

Hi, thanks....

Sorry, could you remind me of what KINO means? I have not read the bible in quite some time.

Thanks.
 

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Girls are not innocent naive school-girls...

When you approach a woman and she 'allows' you to take up her time and run your game and then once again 'allows' you to walk her home, she expects to be fvcked. Plain and simple, it was a one-and-done situation. She found you cool and fvckable and was willing to give herself to you that night, you passed and she's out 'give other chances' to 'other' guys at this very moment...

Not every girl is looking for a knight in shining armor and someone to talk and go to the movies with, ALOT of females just want to be fvcked and generally just sexually aroused. Its guys that are looking for love i'm convinced, girls must have a good laugh at guys like you -> No offense btw


-Cod3r
 

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jejeje... non taken... ;-)

No offense taken. If that's what she wanted (to just be f$$$$$), then I am not interested in her anyway. I am no longer in need of "increasing" the number of times that I have sex, I mean, I do want something a little more meaningful. I guess my post is more trying to figure out if I did something (by action or omission) that could have turned her off, from what I described earlier. Obviously, if what she wanted was to just a one night stand, then I obviously turned her off by not making any move...;-) )

Anyhow, thanks for responding.
 

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KINO refers to touching her in a non sexual way. in other words, creating a physical connection. did you? if you did not, it could have turned her off because she might have felt that you were cold towards her.
 

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Kino, gotcha

Thanks....

No, I did not touch her (non sexual or sexually), besides de peck on the cheek. Perhaps I should have?. I think that might be a little invasive of private space, specially when you just met her, right?... Well, I guess also the issue was that there was never an "oportunity" to do it smoothly (that is, like touch her without it being obvious. Is like making a move for the kiss, you don't necesarily know when is the "right" time, but you DO KNOW when it is NOT the right time.... right?)....

Interesting input, though. Thanks!.
 

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No offense taken. If that's what she wanted (to just be f$$$$$), then I am not interested in her anyway
Then problem solved, next ;)



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He already knows the NEXT thing you don't have to tell him over and over again bro. Fairguy you might want to read up on KINO and practice it until you get it, because it will seem abit awkward to you at first but as you get the hang of it you will be able to kino very smoothly. Glad to be of help.
 

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If i'm not wrong, there is a search function on this forum and tonnes of posts in the tips section on it. The bible shud have some articles about it too.
 
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