Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Did i screw it up with all three babes?

ICaughtFire

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i went to amusement park with three babes yesterday, there was two HB6-7 and a HB8-9, one of the HB7 invited me when i was tesaing her about she has to buy me a latte and she suggested me coming with them to the amusement park so she can buy it for me

the day was fun, i mostly teased the HB7 since i know her longer and we flirted quite a lot before, the second HB7 and the HB8-9 were just too quiet and silent for my taste, but i did manage to have some casual and friendly conversations with the 9, and i think she finds me comfortable and friendly, but probably not attractive. I also tesed the second HB7 somewhat and the result was decent but wasn't spectacular, but she wasn't the one i was going for anyways

overal in the day i was casual, talkative, friendly and fun, but there were often problems of them not hearing me clearly when i speak coz i speak too fast or too slurry, not sure but i think it may affect how they view me as cool and confident and such

today i went back home and none of the two girls added me in msn or anything, the HB7 that invited me to disneyland didn't even invite me to the halloween party she is going to tonight, although she didn't invite the two girls that went with us to disney as well, or maybe it wasn't her party and she has no say who she can bring, or she just doens't find me fun anymore after yesterday

so did i screw it up?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The Godfather

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Give it sum tym...
 

Morphiex

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woooah relax man .... u gotta learn to not give a **** , a little, if u worriy about those stuff alot then ... well lets just say it not a good thing...

Ever heard the saying : u find what u want when u are not looking for it....

think about it .....

from what ive understand girls arent that much online unless its in the late night , they like to keep busy all the time, have something to do , maby they were just too busy with other stuff ... About the party sounds like she is going to someone elses party , then it is usually rude to show up with extra guests ....

relax and wait a little.....
 
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