I was on the subway with a buddy of mine, when a girl a few seats down recognized him and waved him over. Turns out they knew eachother back in high school, but have no history together so to speak.
So i introduced myself, shook her hand and the two of us started talking to her. I kept the conversation focused on her, used the C&F attitude as usual, and was a little aloof - sometimes i looked away to make it look like i wasn't really paying attention.
So we got off the subway (same stop for all of us, though me and my buddy have to take the bus after) and the two of them smoked a joint while we were talking (i don't smoke). She seemed to pay an equal attention to both of us, but i caught her staring at my muscles at least 5 times. That, and i made her laugh 3 times, while my friend couldn't (he never even said anything funny though).
So i figured i'd go for it even though she mentioned she had a boyfriend. Here is what took place when it was time to go:
*pull out my cell and flip it open*
Me: Alright, why don't you give me your number, perhaps we'll get together sometime.
*she seemed slightly surprised by the way i asked*
Her: Okay, i can give you my pager number.
Me: You don't have a cell phone?
(i completely forgot about the home number)
Her: No, the pager is all i have.
Me: Alright, what's the number?
*she gives me the number, and i pretend that my cell phone ate it and make her repeat it to make sure it's real*
Her: We can get together sometime... but i have a boyfriend.
Me (with a laugh): So when's the wedding?
*she looked startled, looked down, paused for a few seconds, then looked back up and answered*
Her: I... haven't thought about that yet
Me (with a smile): See, so it can't be that serious. You can have a little fun on the side, can't you?
*she would barely look me in the eyes from this point on*
Her: It's kinda serious... one and a half years....
Me (with a smirk): Alright, if you say so. It was nice meeting you anyway!
*we shake hands, while she's looking completely the other way*
Alright, so what do you guys make of all this? I'm 20 and she's 18 and about an 8 on my scale. Let me know if you need any other info. Please make any suggestions about my approach, and whether i should pursue this or not. I'm not interested in having a relationship with this girl - she wouldn't be dating material if she cheated on her boyfriend. But she would make a great fvck buddy!
So i introduced myself, shook her hand and the two of us started talking to her. I kept the conversation focused on her, used the C&F attitude as usual, and was a little aloof - sometimes i looked away to make it look like i wasn't really paying attention.
So we got off the subway (same stop for all of us, though me and my buddy have to take the bus after) and the two of them smoked a joint while we were talking (i don't smoke). She seemed to pay an equal attention to both of us, but i caught her staring at my muscles at least 5 times. That, and i made her laugh 3 times, while my friend couldn't (he never even said anything funny though).
So i figured i'd go for it even though she mentioned she had a boyfriend. Here is what took place when it was time to go:
*pull out my cell and flip it open*
Me: Alright, why don't you give me your number, perhaps we'll get together sometime.
*she seemed slightly surprised by the way i asked*
Her: Okay, i can give you my pager number.
Me: You don't have a cell phone?
(i completely forgot about the home number)
Her: No, the pager is all i have.
Me: Alright, what's the number?
*she gives me the number, and i pretend that my cell phone ate it and make her repeat it to make sure it's real*
Her: We can get together sometime... but i have a boyfriend.
Me (with a laugh): So when's the wedding?
*she looked startled, looked down, paused for a few seconds, then looked back up and answered*
Her: I... haven't thought about that yet
Me (with a smile): See, so it can't be that serious. You can have a little fun on the side, can't you?
*she would barely look me in the eyes from this point on*
Her: It's kinda serious... one and a half years....
Me (with a smirk): Alright, if you say so. It was nice meeting you anyway!
*we shake hands, while she's looking completely the other way*
Alright, so what do you guys make of all this? I'm 20 and she's 18 and about an 8 on my scale. Let me know if you need any other info. Please make any suggestions about my approach, and whether i should pursue this or not. I'm not interested in having a relationship with this girl - she wouldn't be dating material if she cheated on her boyfriend. But she would make a great fvck buddy!