Did I play it right?

[tonynisk]

So I'm a sophomore at college and I got a girl's number under the veil we'd do hw together since we're in the same math class(bad move ik).

After a few texts about hw I asked her out ice skating. She said yes and that she'd get back to me with a specific time.

Two weeks later and no reply....

But then I saw her at a party and she was a little drunk but firmly grabbed my arm and said "I know I ignored you but text me to remind me about ice skating!"

Of course I didn't text her, but I got a text from her the next day about a hw question.



I see her everyday since my college only has 370 students in each graduating class. I saw her today after the text and gave her a smirk and she immediately looked away.

I was debating whether to continue to ignore her or just say 'who's this?' and act uninterested.

Thoughts?

 

[Meisterman]

I'd either ask her once more then drop it forever (if that will help you get closure), or just drop it right now, delete her number and move on. Saying "who's this?" is childish because you know who it is and she knows that you know etc. Just treat her like any classmate/acquaintance. Friendly and respectful but avoid confrontation unless necessary.

 

[Trump]

So I'm a sophomore at college and I got a girl's number under the veil we'd do hw together since we're in the same math class(bad move ik).

After a few texts about hw I asked her out ice skating. She said yes and that she'd get back to me with a specific time.

Two weeks later and no reply....

But then I saw her at a party and she was a little drunk but firmly grabbed my arm and said "I know I ignored you but text me to remind me about ice skating!"

Of course I didn't text her, but I got a text from her the next day about a hw question.

I saw her today after the text and gave her a smirk and she immediately looked away.

I was debating whether to continue to ignore her or just say 'who's this?' and act uninterested.

I wouldn't answer the text, she's either making you work too hard or trying to protect herself and make a fool out of you.

For someone your age its hard to hear this but just move on, don't waste too much effort and time with her.

I remember when I was a sophomore I would fly across the ocean in the hopes of getting a kiss from a girl. Now I don't think I could drive more than 10 minutes to sleep with a girl. :rock:

 

[tonynisk]

Ok thanks guys. I was debating whether to text "haha sorry ive been pretty busy" to reestablish contact but ignoring her is probably way less beta.