"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Did I miss the boat on this one? Please help.

PS79

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I've been going to this new gym for about 6-7 weeks now...

Keep seeing this one girl (and her friend) at the gym once a week around the same time....

She knows I'm there, vice versa cause we keep peeking at each other. I know of her. Almost positive she knows of me.... but we've never spoken to other... not one word.

Twice she and her friend kept gravitating towards me by the machine weights (don't know if this was planned) but nothing happened (my fault)

Last week, she and I literally stared at other for a good second or two at the lobby area but nothing happened (my fault)

Did my opportunity pass here? Should I just not give a s**t now and move on? I mean I'm going to see her once a week for who know how long.

Would I like to ask her out on a date? Absolutely.

What do you guys think?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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pLaYtHiNg

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I'd go for it! If ya'll are checking each other out, just walk over and say hi! You already have something in common, so that's good!
 

DJx420

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In my opinion, yea you kinda missed the boat on this one. If you see a girl at the gym on a consistent basis, you gotta go up to her and ask her to spot you for a set, or walk past her when shes on the elliptical or something like that and stick your tounge out at her and then when she gets off just start talking to her...It doesn't really matter WHAT you do as long as you just do SOMETHING.

But give a shot man, hopefully you haven't missed out.
 

K.Pez

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if you see her again, then you have another opportunity to get on the boat. just don't miss it this time.
 

jayhood

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Apparently, this girl is INTERESTED in you. So man up and make her ATTRACTED toward you. if you are not interested then forget all about her. However, from the sound of this, it seems like you might be interested. Also, be careful when you say "im going to see her once a week". When an opportunity comes do not procrastinate!!!. You never know what might happen!! Also It seems like you like this girl, but is not confident enough to bust a move. if this is so, Stop this AFC behavior instantly.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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