"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Did I mess up?

DamHE

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Today, I flirted with a girl that was in my class last year but did not pay much interest to. She flirted back and shes about a HB8 or 9. Well so anyways we flirted a bit (no kino) and then we had to go to our own classes. So at the end of school we both ended up in the guidance counselor office to submit our applications. As we walked out I asked her what her first choice was and she said (without looking back) the school and it turned out that it was the same as mine so I told her. She stopped to chat with friends while I went down the stair well.

I was reading the bulletin board when she went down the stairs and said, "See you tommorow Ed" (without looking back again) and since I was a) distracted with the bulletin board and b) caught up in my thoughts I didn't say bye or anything.. I don't want to hook up with this girl but she has some cute friends so do you think I just shot my self in the foot or what?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Zerotwoonenine

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just become friends with her and then she will introduce you to her friends if you dont mess up.
 
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