"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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thecurtainfalls

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"Igetit!" chose an appropriate username. Too bad you're not listening more closely to what he's saying, because he's absolutely right.

You need to run, not walk, away from this one bud. Better luck next time.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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DontThink

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Well when it seemed like all hope was lost, she called me yesterday. I was out at the casino and didnt hear my phone. I text her "At the casino, Sup?" and she texted me back "Nm".

Do I just wait till friday? Or call her back today and setup a date and tell her to wear something nice?

I am all ears fellas. I truely appreciate all the advice.
 

steviecruiser

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Listen every1 is right that you messed up not being Alpha and hooking up. I've made bold moves with half as many IOIs as this girl gave you only to have them wanting my junk even more because of it.

U want to hook up with this girl??? If she is at the same party say hello to her and then make sure you give other girls/people more attention. Act like she isn't even a priority. Then every so often go back to her and chat with her for a minute... then leave and start chatting with others

Her buying temperatue will invariably increase... then just be like "lets take a walk" Isolate and hook up

I dont know if you have the ballz to do this but I am 99% sure it will work if you try it
 

Sandow

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I wouldn't call or text her today, rather call/text her on friday. Yea she may be a lil pissed that you ignored her text, but she'll be happy to hear from you the next day. That's push/pull my friend.
 

DontThink

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I seemed to have sparked fire with another girl. I was downtown and I saw a perfect 10 walking in the rain, so I asked if she needed a ride. Well we flirted the whole ride, exchanged numbers and made plans for next thursday.

Now I am a walking before I can crawl. I do not know what to do with this party coming up tomorrow and this other new girl. My interest is split and I do not want to do anyone bogus.

I am no good at juggling.

Any advice/comments/opinions appreciated.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Gangster Of Love

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DontThink said:
I seemed to have sparked fire with another girl. I was downtown and I saw a perfect 10 walking in the rain, so I asked if she needed a ride. Well we flirted the whole ride, exchanged numbers and made plans for next thursday.

Now I am a walking before I can crawl. I do not know what to do with this party coming up tomorrow and this other new girl. My interest is split and I do not want to do anyone bogus.

I am no good at juggling.

Any advice/comments/opinions appreciated.

Perfect 10's don't walk in the rain in downtown. :crazy: Perfect 10's don't get in the car with a stranger.:nono: Perfect 10's run away from, not towards guys with no game.:nervous:

I am not saying you are lying, errrrrrrrrrrrr, yes I am. But to each his own.

I smell a troll here!
 

DontThink

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Gangster Of Love said:
Perfect 10's don't walk in the rain in downtown. :crazy: Perfect 10's don't get in the car with a stranger.:nono: Perfect 10's run away from, not towards guys with no game.:nervous:

I am not saying you are lying, errrrrrrrrrrrr, yes I am. But to each his own.

I smell a troll here!
Thats fine, I dont crave your approval. I am getting all the advice I need.
 
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