Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
DontThink said:I seemed to have sparked fire with another girl. I was downtown and I saw a perfect 10 walking in the rain, so I asked if she needed a ride. Well we flirted the whole ride, exchanged numbers and made plans for next thursday.
Now I am a walking before I can crawl. I do not know what to do with this party coming up tomorrow and this other new girl. My interest is split and I do not want to do anyone bogus.
I am no good at juggling.
Any advice/comments/opinions appreciated.
Thats fine, I dont crave your approval. I am getting all the advice I need.Gangster Of Love said:Perfect 10's don't walk in the rain in downtown. :crazy: Perfect 10's don't get in the car with a stranger.:nono: Perfect 10's run away from, not towards guys with no game.:nervous:
I am not saying you are lying, errrrrrrrrrrrr, yes I am. But to each his own.
I smell a troll here!