"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Did I lose her or no?

captain55

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Well fellas the good news is she's talking about me again, the bad news is that its only been 12 hours and Im already getting irritated with her again. i really do like her but I'm starting to question if she's worth it. She did mention to me that the last guy she dated broke things off with her, if she was truly a catch she wouldn't of gotten dumped right?
Maybe I'm just getting impatient as I get older but her attitude is making my **** go limp. Im tired of being single and playing the field I need a gf but this is quickly remaining me why I stayed single for as long as I have.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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