Did i just meet a playa?

[Tired]

Hi guys, just know this site for like a month been reading all this posts quite informative seroiusly. After all this i decided to post my situation and get some advices from u guys.

Scenario:

Known this girl for 3 years. Buddy was deeply in love with her. Got rejected twice i think. Unknowingly i fell for her. Kept within myself didnt want to cre8 any drama. Now dat we have graduated i decided to confess via letter. Lucky thing was she agreed to go out with me on a dinner alone. Very happy actually seldom happen in my life. So manage to pass her the letter. Waiting for replies. End up reply wasnt really good just said some good words to me sort of rejectin in a nice way. Well i thought life dun go the way u want all the time. Its time to move on.

Low and behold 3 days letter recieve a txtmsg sayin it was not totally impossible between us she just needed time. I was totally happy. Told her dun be pressurized to give me an answer she said she prefered to talk face to face. So actually today was actual date to meet her. Was hoping to talk everything and make it clear whether we could start a R/S. In the end she had something cropped up. She did give another alternative as in meeting up next week. I want to believe her dat she really needs more time to think but sometimes all this last min change of plan thing is really got me thinking. Either she is really busy or just tryin to play hard to get. ARghh As i am typin now. Shes online on her I.M and so am i. Been an hour we never talked. Could this be she already lost interest in me. I am going away on a trip tomorrow. I just wanna see her and get our situation clear and right. Arghhh i feel so horrible now i must been so dumb

 

[Desdinova]

I'm hoping someone in DJD can decipher this

Moved...

 

[poohead]

put it this way-

if you had a date to meet with someone who says he likes you, and you were *really* into them, would you flake out? nobody is that busy. even if i was so busy at work i had paperwork up to my ears, if i had a date with jessica alba, i would *make* time.

worst case scenario: she doesn't like you, she's knows she has to tell you in person but she is putting it off because she doesn't want to do it. who wants to be mean like that?

best case scenario: you have your foot in the door, but she is *testing* you. the best way to deal with the 'flake out on a date and offer to meet some other time' test is: act cool, but *do not call her or contact her*. the next contact should be made by her. if you break no contact you will fail this test.

 

[Tired]

this relaly make sense hmmm but i still dun understand the part why she said she needed more time 3 days after when she oredi pass me the rejection letter

 

[poohead]

you better start reading the DJ bible and any DJ literature you can get your hands on. pay special attention to 'tests'.

 

[Tired]

sorry where do i read this dj bible thing? hmm sorry i try did a search but to no avail

 

[poohead]

link at the bottom of the page

 

[d9930380]

Looks like you've got oneitis, chill man, you're just after saying that you wanted to meet her to talk to her about starting a R/S, she's just out of one, with your mate no less.

Give her time, and in the meantime, practise your grammar. ;-)