"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Did I just get **** tested ?

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Been with my GF for 18 months.........Tonight we have a house party at my friends house. He lives 20 minutes from me and 40 minutes from her.

Usually she will drive to my house, we will fool aroud, then we will hop in my car and I drive us together, then we go back to my house again after , we fool around and she drives home.

She just asked me if " I was gonna go pick her up " I kind of hesitated and told her well no babe it's way closer and easier if you just come here. I can tell she was kind of put off , she got silent then gave me the old " ok whatever "

I then asked her what time she would be over at my house , we have to leave my place at 8 : 30, usually she would come over around 6 or 6 : 30 , fool around , listen to music and go. Now she said if we have to leave at 8 30 Ill be there around 8 . What the heck is going on here ? I could tell she sounded a little pissed.

Any idea what my next step should be ? Should I cave and just go pick her up ??
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Julius_Seizeher

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Maybe what she really needs is to see you attracting other women tonight.

You know, puts things back in perspective.
 

Nutz

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Julius_Seizeher said:
Maybe what she really needs is to see you attracting other women tonight.

You know, puts things back in perspective.
A little competition anxiety does wonders for relationship management.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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