did i just get played?

[chance-]

the girl i been talkin to online asked if i wanted to meet her today.. so i said yeah, and she kept blabberin on about other crap and im like sure.. an hour goes by shes still not ready and talkin crap and then shes like i just went outside and im not feeling well. dont think ill meet.. i want to but i feel unwell.

??? and i just had a shower n dressed up. fuking puta!

she also asked me if i was mad.. as if she wanted me to get angry.

btw is it rude of a man to tell a girl to come see him? cause she lives far and i dont drive. she does. and i really cant be FUKED goin all the way.

just for her doin that to me. next time she wants to meet im gonna tell her if she wants to, she can come see ME. i aint fuking movin an inch.

 

[hover411]

she is giving you a sh_t test, pushing your buttons to see what you will and will not put up with.

let her know that it is BS straight and simple, but do not act like it is a HUGE deal and that you are SO angry.

just say, "that was messed up and you know it, don't do it again." never let em see you sweat.

 

[starplayer]

^ yeah what hover said is pretty accurate.

It's either low interest or a test.

In either case, you have to:
1) Let her know this is not acceptable
2) But not lose your cool.

Call her out on it if you want. But remember, women respond better to covert communication than overt communication. This means that to act a bit cold and distant with her will get the message across. Start withholding your attention a bit and she will go crazy.

If you still want to see her after this blatant show of disrespect, make sure she does the chasing and all the work to make up for it. DON'T CHASE HER to try and set up another meet.

 

[bish0p]

so ur pissed because u took a shower and got dressed? shouldn't you be doing this anyways?

haha nice