"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Did I just fall into the friend zone or did she just drop a huge hint for me?

Brighty

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Basically I've been taking pictures with these two girls (one of them is hot, one of them isn't) for class for the past week or so. I've been gaming the hot one and today I'm not sure what she was trying to say to me subtly.

Basically here's how it goes:

Brighty, Girl A, and Girl B are all walking down the hallway taking pictures

Girl B: (meh): *quickly mentions about how she went out with a dude for eight months and wasted her time, she doesn't ramble on about it, just briefly mentions it, I'm basically half listening and I tend to avoid girltalk like this*

Girl A (hot one): Man.. No one's ever asked me out on a date or gone to a dance with me (I really doubt that, shes really popular and she has a great body) *she says this as she makes eye contact with me for a second*

Brighty: *scoffs* I find that hard to believe

Girl A: *looks at me, with a half serious face* No I'm serious!



Basically the rest of the time we would split up every now and then and take pictures on our own. Then at random times, as I was filling up my water bottle at the water fountain, she comes up and knocks it down and then smiles and runs off. At another instance I was taking a picture and she playfully waved her hand in front of the camera, so I nudged her with my hip out of the way.

I hope I didn't fall into the friendzone with her, because the past week I've been playfully negging her and being C&F and at the beginning, she didn't really respond well, now she's slowly responding positively to it and since yesterday, she's seemed like shes really warmed up to me. But as a friend or a potential boyfriend?

What do you guys think?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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D!ck Ramsey

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This belongs in the "Most Obvious Come On that Was Missed" thread

The chick is waving big airport flares at you but you still dont come in for a landing.

Stop playing DJ games and ask her out already!
 

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D!ck Ramsey said:
This belongs in the "Most Obvious Come On that Was Missed" thread

The chick is waving big airport flares at you but you still dont come in for a landing.

Stop playing DJ games and ask her out already!
AGREED

:kick:

GO FOR IT ALREADY:)
 

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Try to be indirect in your approach to her.
Make sure she enjoys your Game. She wants to be teased and seduced. She wants the entire pallete of Seduction.
Do not go in direct with her or you will lose headway she already gave you.
 
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