"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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did i handle this right?

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TheNewGuy

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i'm typing this quick because i'm burnt.

me and my girl of 3 months go to the store.
AFC who likes my girl works there.
my girlfriends birthday is tomorrow
AFC says "you get 16 punches", starts punching her. obviously flirting.
first few I kinda laugh, joke around. Then I grab my girlfriend and kinda start pulling her inside of the store. She pulls away and starts running around. I'm not about to chase her, so I start walking in the store.

She catches up to me and is pissed that I didn't "stop him". My ass, I tried walking away with her and she ran out of my arms. She told me I should've either fought him or yelled at him. I asked her why I should fight some loser kid thats trying to flirt. She says "<big guy> would've gotten pissed if someone was flirting with <big guy's girlfriend>"

This pissed me off, so I left her there and went and smoked a blunt with my friend. Then I went back there, picked her up and bought her home. It was like nothing ever happened.

did i do that right?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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IceCream

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dang, a little colder than what is "appropriate" but you got the job done. She just wants to see her control over you and see how far you would go for her (sh1t test).

But i like what you did. :)
 
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theunflushables

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Yeah, a little harsh. Be prepared for the end of the relationship though.
 
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