"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Did I handle this right?

B-Real

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Ok, I call this girl a little while ago and I ask her what she is doing tonight, or I think i said what is going on tonight like I was interested.

Then I had someone call me so I told her I had a beep, which I did, and I said I will call you back in a minute. Ok this is the girl that thinks she has me by the balls and that I will do anything to be around her.

Although she flakes on certain situations. Ok, back to the point. I told her I would call her back and I never did. About 15 minutes goes by and she still hadn't heard from me and so she calls me back and was like "thanks for not calling me back like you said you was going too" and I was like I was planning on calling you back but I have to go do so and so with somebody real quick, I forget exactly what I told her.

And she was like 'yea sure whatever you forgot to call me back" and I said well maybe we can hang out tomorrow or something I'll give you a call.

Was this smooth? Or was it just nothing really to get upset about. Because like some of you said in my past posts, this girl will attract towards me if I act like I don't really care about her. She sounded like she was mad at me and I think this is what I want. What do you think?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Dannyrt34

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When she called back you should have said

"Sorry, that was my other girlfriend, she wanted to see me tonite."
 

Nighthawk

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It's good. If she wasn't attracted to your behaviour she wouldn't have called you back to test you some more. Sounds like you blew it off, which is right.

I bet she apologizes for yelling at you next.
 

B-Real

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yeah but that would have been obvious that it wasn't true becasue in my normal conversations I wouldn't have said that. I just want her to realize that she isn't the only thing that I have going. And I said that maybe we can do something some other time.

Plus I never used to turn her down. I would always call her and ask her to meet me some place or go eat or whatever.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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