"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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did I get used by this chick?

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I was at a "last-day-of-school" party some time ago, and one of my classmates brought along her friend (whom I'll call Sarah) to have fun with us. Sarah immediately started talking to me, and I'd say we hit it off pretty well at first. She asked me for my full name, and I figured that she wanted to add me on Facebook, so I gave her my info as well. (She was unable to find my name (using the Facebook app for iPhone) on there so she told me to add her instead.) We even "hug-closed" when the party was over.

However, it's been a very long time, and she hasn't accepted my friend request. My parents think that Sarah may have used me in order to know the other guys (there were only 5-6 girls at the party; the rest were all guys). After all, she would probably have eagerly my friend request if she was truly interested in me. Come to think of it, the "no results found for <name>" might have been a ruse, and she may have used a "fake" Facebook app (i.e., a completely different program) because I have my profile set that anyone can find it via search.

In fact, many of my peers have told me that I get along with people very well, and that I'm "not too aggressive," which would explain why people might would want to take advantage of me. What do y'all think?

In any case, it's not really a loss for me because I'm not too into Sarah at the moment. Next!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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nkh78h said:
Come to think of it, the "no results found for <name>" might have been a ruse, and she may have used a "fake" Facebook app (i.e., a completely different app).
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I think you are overthinking.

She didn´t accept your request, so? Why do you care so much, to the point of coming up with such elaborate schemes. Stuff like that happens everyday everywhere.

It´s not about you being used, parties are social settings, ppl talk, get to know each other, it doesn´t have to mean a lot.
 
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Yeah def a lot of trouble to get to know other guys. . . I'm sure she could've just gone over and talked to them especially at a sausage fest haha

Besides you haven't really talked since, it's no big loss or anything, I just wouldn't worry about it
 
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