Alright so I approached this girl, whom i've talked to once before about class and introduced myself briefly, the other day and got her number. The conversation leading up to the # close went pretty well, very natural.
She was asking me a lot of question which i saw it as an interest, but the next day when we were walking out of class, she said "I'm sorry but I didn't know what your intentions were yesterday because I have a boyfriend and I don't think he would like me going to get coffee..." After she said that, I was pretty surprised but acted cool about it and said, "well you can bring him along!" jokingly of course.
When we parted ways, I said its a shame you have a boyfriend, but i'll give you a call this weekend, you and your boyfriend should come out with us.
So my question is should i still call this chick or just forget about it? I was thinking about the conversation we had and there were a few things that stuck out to me so I don't know if she really do have a boyfriend (which won't mind break come in between them it all
) or she's just not interested.
Normally, I wouldn't let a little thing like this get to me, but I think she is super cute and was pretty excited when I got her number, hence this dilemma. haha.
Before this, I really though this girl has some interest in me cause the class is huge, but i alway see her looking towards my direction, and she was very talkative and had good eye contact when we were talking. we talked about class, she asked my where i lived and etc...
I guess i should also noted that we are both asian and when I was getting her number, one of the questions that first came up was what ethicity I was. (I'm chinese, she's either japanese or korean, I didn't ask). When i told her I was chinese she was like, "oh I though you were korean".
So those kinda lead me to think, and this is kind of a stretch, but could this be a cause? lol.
The reason I think this is also because there was one part in the conversation after she told be about having a boyfriend where i said,
Me: I always see you in class and thought you were cute so...
Her: oh we are both asian
Me: haha, whats that suppose to mean?
Her: It means we can be friends...
Honesty, I was pretty bummed out after i learned about the bf, but the whole situation seems kinda funny the more i think about it. :crackup:
some analysis/advice would be appreciated fellers!
She was asking me a lot of question which i saw it as an interest, but the next day when we were walking out of class, she said "I'm sorry but I didn't know what your intentions were yesterday because I have a boyfriend and I don't think he would like me going to get coffee..." After she said that, I was pretty surprised but acted cool about it and said, "well you can bring him along!" jokingly of course.
When we parted ways, I said its a shame you have a boyfriend, but i'll give you a call this weekend, you and your boyfriend should come out with us.
So my question is should i still call this chick or just forget about it? I was thinking about the conversation we had and there were a few things that stuck out to me so I don't know if she really do have a boyfriend (which won't mind break come in between them it all
) or she's just not interested. Normally, I wouldn't let a little thing like this get to me, but I think she is super cute and was pretty excited when I got her number, hence this dilemma. haha.
Before this, I really though this girl has some interest in me cause the class is huge, but i alway see her looking towards my direction, and she was very talkative and had good eye contact when we were talking. we talked about class, she asked my where i lived and etc...
I guess i should also noted that we are both asian and when I was getting her number, one of the questions that first came up was what ethicity I was. (I'm chinese, she's either japanese or korean, I didn't ask). When i told her I was chinese she was like, "oh I though you were korean".
So those kinda lead me to think, and this is kind of a stretch, but could this be a cause? lol.
The reason I think this is also because there was one part in the conversation after she told be about having a boyfriend where i said,
Me: I always see you in class and thought you were cute so...
Her: oh we are both asian
Me: haha, whats that suppose to mean?
Her: It means we can be friends...
Honesty, I was pretty bummed out after i learned about the bf, but the whole situation seems kinda funny the more i think about it. :crackup:
some analysis/advice would be appreciated fellers!