“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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did i fu(k this up?

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i was at a party, not many peeps there.
this girl turns up though, and i notice right away she's quite cute but as soon as she opens her mouth - jesus!
i wanted to throw something at her, she was damned annoying!
Anyway, night went on and i was bored, didnt think there was any likelyhood of pulling, or more accuratly that i didnt want to.

Then the annoying girl starts talking to me. Now i have to be honest here - its the most interesting conversation i've had in months. She is really interesting and unique. I thought she was annoying and a bit fake before but when i started talkin to her my mind totally changed, she was really nice and we ended up having one of those conversations where u just completly connect with someone. I even managed to include several patterns, bit of flirtation. Well... result...sort of...

Her friend had to go early, so she went then as well but before she went she asked if we could exchange numbers, dont get me wrong, i was going to ask her for her number, she kinda beat me to it! Then we exchanged email addresses too. And she left.

Result! Anyway, just as she walked out the door, this drunk chick starts coming onto me, like alllll over me. I manage to ecape but later on she gets one of my friends to let me know she wants to talk to me, so i go into the other room to "talk" to her, i actually had no intention of anything else, but she dives on me, just kisses me straight out. I kiss her back a little, and then keep resisting. Then i walked into the other room, cos she got all mad at me for rejecting her. (however we had been kissing for about 1-2 minutes b4 i did)

Anyway, interesting night, i have no interest in the girl i kissed, she's decent looking but i have no interest. The "irritating" girl though, she is different and seems really cool. Im not expecting anything but it has to be a possibility, so did i fvck it up by kissing the other girl (especially if the cute one finds out)

damned i feel so dumb for even kissing her back a little, but i just didnt have the heart to reject her at first.

Anyway, what should i do with this cute chick?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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why have you fvucked it up?, DON'T WORRY!!...

if the 'annoying' one finds out she can't say anything because you wasn't officially 'seeing' each other, if she does say anything then she's not worth your time but personally, your worrying about it too much...loosen up and look on the bright side, you have your pick ;)
 

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Did you do anything wrong?

Short answer: Read the Bible
Shorter answer: NO!

So you kissed another girl. Just because you and "irritating girl" exchanged numbers doesn't mean you're engaged. :p

Enjoy life and stop worrying. :)
 

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so would you be mad if you found out some guy tried to make a move on her and she kissed him and denied him? if you aren't in a relationship or you aren't chasing multiple girls, you aren't DJing very well.
 

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If she finds out you kissed the other girl it will probably work in your favour :)
 
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