"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Did I Dodge A Bullet?

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Hinge has only left over christian women for me on the West Coast. I say you dodged a bullet as the platform is not good if you aren’t apart of any type of religion.
In what world are only Christian women left on hinge. Is this a joke post? If not, you’re not correct. Hinge is tinder with a facelift.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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My response to this woman's text would be :

Ok cool. Thanks for letting me know. I'll make other plans.

That's it. You dodged a bullet
 

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A couple of years later I was on top of my world, proud to be an "a$$hole" and everyone was happier because I knew what was best for me, and the people around me.
Should you tell us more about how they are happy now when they weren't before?

When you've been on both sides, you know there is a better way.
“When you've been in both sides”: if you haven't been in both sides, you won't understand it.
This is the case because there are men who ask for advice, and you could laugh at this: inexperience.

What resources have you studied to become a new person, it would be interesting to know
 
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