"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Did I Dodge A Bullet?

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Hinge has only left over christian women for me on the West Coast. I say you dodged a bullet as the platform is not good if you aren’t apart of any type of religion.
In what world are only Christian women left on hinge. Is this a joke post? If not, you’re not correct. Hinge is tinder with a facelift.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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My response to this woman's text would be :

Ok cool. Thanks for letting me know. I'll make other plans.

That's it. You dodged a bullet
 

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A couple of years later I was on top of my world, proud to be an "a$$hole" and everyone was happier because I knew what was best for me, and the people around me.
Should you tell us more about how they are happy now when they weren't before?

When you've been on both sides, you know there is a better way.
“When you've been in both sides”: if you haven't been in both sides, you won't understand it.
This is the case because there are men who ask for advice, and you could laugh at this: inexperience.

What resources have you studied to become a new person, it would be interesting to know
 
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