"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Did I Dodge A Bullet?

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Hinge has only left over christian women for me on the West Coast. I say you dodged a bullet as the platform is not good if you aren’t apart of any type of religion.
In what world are only Christian women left on hinge. Is this a joke post? If not, you’re not correct. Hinge is tinder with a facelift.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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My response to this woman's text would be :

Ok cool. Thanks for letting me know. I'll make other plans.

That's it. You dodged a bullet
 

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A couple of years later I was on top of my world, proud to be an "a$$hole" and everyone was happier because I knew what was best for me, and the people around me.
Should you tell us more about how they are happy now when they weren't before?

When you've been on both sides, you know there is a better way.
“When you've been in both sides”: if you haven't been in both sides, you won't understand it.
This is the case because there are men who ask for advice, and you could laugh at this: inexperience.

What resources have you studied to become a new person, it would be interesting to know
 
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