"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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did i do this right?

BigKyle

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Ok, well do do a recap there this girl im pretty into, and we have hung out a few times, she seems like she has a great time.

the other night we where at a party, got a litte f'ed up, and stayed a t a friends hotel room that night, i didnt try to do anything sexual, we shared a bed and cuddled and talked about ****, and she seemd to have a great time doing that too...

But heres where the problem comes in... we where going to hang out the other nite(wasnt concrete but she said she wanted to do something), so had to cancel to stay home with her fam, (it was her birthday) so we where going to plan something for this weekend, and i called her up today, she got called in to work... so im like ugg... so i said, for her to call ME tomarrow if she wants to hang out...

I just wanna see if im doing everything ok, like having her call me... its weird, i like her more than just the typical "one night stand" girls... but i havent been in a real relationship for about a year ever sence my Ex cheated on me, im over all that, but i just dont wanna mess things up with this girl....

If she doesnt call should i just let it be... she sounded really excited when i told her i wanna take her out thsi weekend
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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sounds like u're doin alright. u probably should've tried to take that hotel moment farther, it was like a perfect chance handed to u man, but oh well.

your "problem" doesnt sound all that important. she has other stuff going on too, just like u should. its no big thing, definately not a deal breaker. just try again another time, maybe next weekend. having her call u might not work out great, girls dont usually call guys, in my experience, at least. but if it does work, its great for the whole "make her chase u" thing. after all, we're the prizes, right?

tell us how it works out
 

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so you think if i dont hear form her later tonight i should give her a call and invite her out? im going out with a freind and his GF tonight anyway
 
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