"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Did I do the right thing? AMOG OUT THE FRAME

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Where to start...

We can start with my personality... I'm laid back and nice to pretty much everyone until I need to be otherwise.

We can start with this guy who was trying to date my gf at the time I met her. We all went to a concert (she liked me at the time). I tried to let them go by themselves, out of respect for a fellow guy. He ****ed up and pushed her... at which point I would have just knocked him out and walked away. Yet he is a good friend of a good friend of mine, coincidentally. anyway, she went home with me, and I was very nice to him. 2 weeks later, she is my girlfriend.


Fast forward 2 months later. Lately, he has been texting her randomly making fun of me... when all I was ever nice to him... for no reason. just to be a nice guy. and to not start drama. I had to say something to him. check out the AMOG YAY!

Me: evan...
Me: don't act like you're not there evan
Evan: lol what? just got out of the shower
Evan: i sense some shannigans going on
Me: maybe
Evan: well, ill just step off to the side then...
Me: did you say this?
Evan: huh?
Me: "hey stephaaaanie, this is my boyfriend ninga guy." LOL. horrible. ok im done hating...
AUTHOR NOTE: MY GF CALLS ME NINJA GUY BECAUSE I DO MUAY THAI AND JIUJITSU AND ITS CUTE KK? :)
Evan: porque?
Me: because I want to know
Evan: yes, and its completely stupid, i was just making fun of the fact that she calls you 'ninga guy' ok...
Evan: damn
Evan: stephanie is random name that popped in my head
Me: do me a favor
Evan: wow
Evan: ok?
Me: keep my name out of your ****ing mouth.
Evan: uh... ok.. it was a pretty lame joke
Evan: and didnt mean anything by it
Evan: ive never said bad **** about you
Me: evan, don't lie to me
Evan: uh??? ok
Evan: other than the random convo way back when... and i seriously was never trying to make you look bad at all.. i forgot what we were even talkin about...
Evan: at the time... i really felt bad about that, cuz i wasnt trying to make you out to be a bad person
Evan: but aight cool... will holla
Me: dont
BLIZZOCK!!!

the entire time, he was texting her getting pissed that she told me what he was doing. **** THAT!!!! LOL

so did I do what you would have done?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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wow... I spent like 5 minutes on that :( lol

what don't you understand?
 
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Do you did not do what I would have done... You don't AMOG people online ok...wtf
 
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i never understand the term amog, because it always makes me think omigod

anyhow what i read seemed like you just made a little small talk. it didnt really seem to do anything. someone said they didnt mean to make the other feel bad and the other person said it did at the time and then the converstation ended on a "lets never talk again " basis.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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lol whatever bipolar moment. just dont even worry about it. its a really complicated situation. not even going to try to go in depth.

ok. back to normal life :)
 
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