Did I do something wrong?

[onemorerobot]

This girl I've been going out with came over yesterday. It was a pretty gloomy day, very cloudy. We just kind of hung out on the couch together and later in my bed. There was lots of cuddling and play-fighting. Anyway, it seemed to me like she was having a good time. When it was time for her to go to work, I kissed her a couple of times outside in the hall and she smiled and told me to call her some time. Then today at work, I didn't even get so much as a hello. She was totally ignoring me. She wasn't even looking at me. This isn't like her at all but I didn't say anything. I just got my check and left. So what the **** is this?

 

[Nighthawk]

Why didn't you f*ck her? That's what you did wrong.

Also she's testing you for panic and neediness. Don't sweat it.

 

[onemorerobot]

I didn't have sex with her because I'm not ready to have sex with her yet. It's as simple as that. I like her, but I'd like to get to know her a little better before I jam my **** inside of her.

 

[Ace of Flames]

I didn't read the thread, but if you have to ask... then yea, you probably did.

That is all.

 

[Nighthawk]

I didn't have sex with her because I'm not ready to have sex with her yet. It's as simple as that. I like her, but I'd like to get to know her a little better before I jam my **** inside of her.

Alien concept to me, but different strokes for different folks and all that. Whatever the reason, women don't like being rejected any more than men, so that's why you're in the doghouse.

If you're going to be a c*nt-tease you have to be able to deal with the consequences.

 

[DJDamage]

I wouldn't be too worried about it.

Chicks have alot of sh1t going through their head all day long. She might feel that she does not want to be open about your relationship at work so people won't label her a slvt, or she is on her period who knows.

The point is that this behaviour did not happen on a date where the two of you are alone one on one. I would just ignore this behaviour and don't mention it next time you set up a date. If she starts acting flaky or giving you a hard time then you know its something serious and then it will be time to think things over.

 

[onemorerobot]

Well, if that's the problem, then she's just going to have to get over it, seeing as how she practically ditched me last weekend. Sorry, this wasn't in response to your post, Damage. Also, I can understand not wanting everyone to know. People tend to make a big deal out of everything, and right now it's not like we're a couple.

 

[specialed]

is this the same girl you made a bet with?

(if it is)
get over it, you wanted to play games with her...she's playing them back.

 

[DJinTraining06]

Why didn't you f*ck her? That's what you did wrong.

Also she's testing you for panic and neediness. Don't sweat it.

Do women actually do this on purpose, or is a subconscious test that they do without even realizing it?

 

[onemorerobot]

is this the same girl you made a bet with?

(if it is)
get over it, you wanted to play games with her...she's playing them back.

Huh? Apparently you're thinking of someone else.

 

[selfmademob]

If u aint ready to **** her than watch out, I know Im ready.

 

[flexion_]

Don't assume anything. No biggie if she isn't talking at work... afterall she is at work. There is only a problem if she acts like that when you two are alone together.

Maybe she had mentrual cramps. Maybe she got yelled at by her boss. Maybe her ex-BF was there as well. Maybe she didn't have her contacts in....

 

[onemorerobot]

I understand that she's working. I don't expect her to drop what she's doing just to say hello to me. It just bothered me that she was standing right next to me at one point, and I didn't even get a "hey" or a "hi". Maybe it's because we're past that initial stage of flirting?