"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Last night, i called my girl to ask her out

I called her, a lil chitchat

me: Hey, tmr let's go out together

her: Where we gonna go?

me: I wanna watch a movie.

her: Ok

me: All right, meet me at Central 14.00

her: sure

me: ok see u then

That seemed to be good and receptive to me.

After that around 30 min, she called me to invite me to go clubbing with her and her friend, but i said no cuz im gonna go the next night, not last night.


The thing is when it is the time for our appointment today, it is around

14.15, i called her to ask where she is. It took so long before she picked up the call

me: hey, i think u are lost baby hahaha Where r u now?

her: i just woke up, last night i was too drunk and im with my friend right now at my room

me: (I just gone blank for a while) u know that we have a meeting today.

That is very rude to me.

her: hey stop blaming me.....

me: Ok, then u stay with your friend.

(And then i immediately hung up)

Note that i say it in a calm but serious tone. I didn't even get any apology from her at all.


I think that is very rude to me that she doesnt even send me the text msg

that she wont be there.

What are your suggestions for me in this situation?

At first, i think i gonna bang her and then leave her, but she did this to me

then i think im gonna go NC and NEXT her.

What if she reinitiate the contact, what would u guys do?

I just wanna bang her, not even want a relationship with this b!tch.


P.S. I fu(ked her already but tried to set this date so as to fu(k her hard again.
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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keemojung said:
me: All right, meet me at Central 14.00

me: ok see u then
Here are your problems. Words like "OK" and "Alright" are extreme supplicating behavior and should be removed from your vocabulary at all costs. You are projecting that you need her to be OK with you and be Alright with you.

me: Meet me at Central 14.00

me: see u then.

See how much better that sounds. I personally think all talking should be shaved down within an inch of it's life until we are grunting in masculine sentence fragments.

Look women flake all the time. Just like new "friends." But when a possible new friend flakes what do you do? Say later to him or her. You have plenty of friends and don't need them. There's your answer.
 

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FairShake said:
Here are your problems. Words like "OK" and "Alright" are extreme supplicating behavior and should be removed from your vocabulary at all costs. You are projecting that you need her to be OK with you and be Alright with you.

me: Meet me at Central 14.00

me: see u then.

See how much better that sounds. I personally think all talking should be shaved down within an inch of it's life until we are grunting in masculine sentence fragments.

Look women flake all the time. Just like new "friends." But when a possible new friend flakes what do you do? Say later to him or her. You have plenty of friends and don't need them. There's your answer.
1. I still don't get it why the word like All right and OK
shouldnt be used at all.

2. Do u think my reaction is right? I think im gonna next her

or just put her in my f-buddy list. What should i do if she reinitiate the contact?
 

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keemojung said:
her: i just woke up, last night i was too drunk and im with my friend right now at my room

me: (I just gone blank for a while) u know that we have a meeting today.

That is very rude to me.

her: hey stop blaming me.....
Hahaha stop blaming her?? She gets wasted last night and misses your date at 2 in the afternoon and tells you to not blame her??

I probably would've cracked up laughing and then hung up. That's some first-class garbage there. Yeah, NEXT on this one.

She must not've been that into you to clearly miss a date like this. But trust me, you're not losing much.
 

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squirrels said:
Hahaha stop blaming her?? She gets wasted last night and misses your date at 2 in the afternoon and tells you to not blame her??

I probably would've cracked up laughing and then hung up. That's some first-class garbage there. Yeah, NEXT on this one.

She must not've been that into you to clearly miss a date like this. But trust me, you're not losing much.
I forgot to tell u that i fu(ked her hard already.

I tried to settle that date so as to i can fu(k her her brain out again

and then put her on my f-buddy list.

But, well, that sh!t happen so i gonna NEXT her.

What if she reinitiate the contact, what shud i do ?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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