"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hey guys just had a new girl over. Wasn’t able to get hard with her despite eating some good food and taking a horny goat weed tablet about an hour before she arrived. Anyhow while attempting to improve things I took a square of dark chocolate and a few minutes later I took a Fish Oil (NOT Cod Liver) Omega 3 tablet.

got so hard and was able to last really long. Also was able to get hard enough for a second round but came in 10 minutes the second time.

many how, just thought I’d share. I don’t know if it was just a delayed Horny goat weed effect but I’m leaning towards the dark chocolate and Fish Oil capsule.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Fish oil is supposedly a way to help ED,
not sure about chocolate.
 
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Similar experience here. When I eat chocolate edibles, I can bust 3 times in one go and I’m super hard.
Also, I’m on the keto diet, so all I eat are fats and protein, but there are days when I get off the diet and eat a bit of carbs and for some reason, my sex drive goes up, and I get rock hard boners.
 

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Yes but I didn’t get hard like that till after the chocolate and fish pill. HGW alone didn’t do anything it seems
Interesting
Yes, Dark chocolate is good for ED
It has enzymes in it that help produce nitrous oxide and promote blood flow.
Darker the chocolate, the better - The really rich 90% or more, bitter tasting stuff is best.
 

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To add to the above: ^^^ What I use/consume, and the effects.....

First a little background: 10 yrs ago I was in a long-faded marriage - I'd given up on myself, piled on weight, etc, etc... I was a physical mess.
No sex during the last 4 yrs, I had no interest - Even if I'd wanted to, erections were 'rubbery' and didn't last long enough anyway.
Then I had a blood-pressure scare (stupidly high numbers)
My Doc laid it on the line, and it really sh*t me up! Caused me to re-think life in general... so...
I moved out and got divorced, sorted my diet, dropped from about 295lbs to around 180lbs over the next year or so...

These days, I'm the healthiest I've been since my 30s
• I avoid refined sugars - The lag effect from that stuff is terrible.
• Vit-C with zinc - Multi-minerals that include Boron - Omega-3 fish oil capsule
• Most days I'll drink a glass of pomegranate juice, or a sugar-free fizzy drink that contains L-Arginine (I'm halfway through one right now).
• Every weekend I juice a watermelon (including the pips and rind), add some lime or lemon juice (because watermelon alone is a bland taste), enough for a small glass each morning for the week.
• I've now come off most of the B-P medication, but I continue with the Calcium-channel inhibitor (Amlodipine) because it works by opening blood vessels (The same thing that blue V-Pills do, but a less dramatic effect) - As a by-product.... CC-inhibitors are also a good defence against getting seriously ill from the Covid-bug.
• Occasional VERY dark chocolate.... If I think sex is on the cards that night.

Results...
The hardest boners I've had since my 30s - Morning wood is back with a vengeance (it had stopped during my late 40s)
And when I get down to business, I no longer need any 'downtime' between rounds - So long as there's a willing woman around... once it's 'up', it stays up until I choose to stop (or go to sleep)
Much to the surprise.... and pleasure.... of women who are usually at least 10 yrs younger - One woman of 29 (when I was 54) actually thought I'd popped a 'V' pill (I hadn't)


* I've highlighted what I think are the most relevant things.
Just my own personal experience.... and what seems to work for me.
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Yes, Dark chocolate is good for ED
It has enzymes in it that help produce nitrous oxide and promote blood flow.
Darker the chocolate, the better - The really rich 90% or more, bitter tasting stuff is best.
Yea that’s the kind I eat! I just tried having that fish pill this morning without the chocolate and the boner was meh and took some coaxing. I will try the chocolate soon to see if that’s it. Perhaps it was the combination of all three (HGW, Dark Chocolate, and Fish Oil)
 

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To add to the above: ^^^ What I use/consume, and the effects.....

First a little background: 10 yrs ago I was in a long-faded marriage - I'd given up on myself, piled on weight, etc, etc... I was a physical mess.
No sex during the last 4 yrs, I had no interest - Even if I'd wanted to, erections were 'rubbery' and didn't last long enough anyway.
Then I had a blood-pressure scare (stupidly high numbers)
My Doc laid it on the line, and it really sh*t me up! Caused me to re-think life in general... so...
I moved out and got divorced, sorted my diet, dropped from about 295lbs to around 180lbs over the next year or so...

These days, I'm the healthiest I've been since my 30s
• I avoid refined sugars - The lag effect from that stuff is terrible.
• Vit-C with zinc - Multi-minerals that include Boron - Omega-3 fish oil capsule
• Most days I'll drink a glass of pomegranate juice, or a sugar-free fizzy drink that contains L-Arginine (I'm halfway through one right now).
• Every weekend I juice a watermelon (including the pips and rind), add some lime or lemon juice (because watermelon alone is a bland taste), enough for a small glass each morning for the week.
• I've now come off most of the B-P medication, but I continue with the Calcium-channel inhibitor (Amlodipine) because it works by opening blood vessels (The same thing that blue V-Pills do, but a less dramatic effect) - As a by-product.... CC-inhibitors are also a good defence against getting seriously ill from the Covid-bug.
• Occasional VERY dark chocolate.... If I think sex is on the cards that night.

Results...
The hardest boners I've had since my 30s - Morning wood is back with a vengeance (it had stopped during my late 40s)
And when I get down to business, I no longer need any 'downtime' between rounds - So long as there's a willing woman around... once it's 'up', it stays up until I choose to stop (or go to sleep)
Much to the surprise.... and pleasure.... of women who are usually at least 10 yrs younger - One woman of 29 (when I was 54) actually thought I'd popped a 'V' pill (I hadn't)


* I've highlighted what I think are the most relevant things.
Just my own personal experience.... and what seems to work for me.
Thanks. I’m not overweight (the opposite actually as I’m 150lbs and 6 feet tall). I eat only healthy non processed foods except for pizza or burger occasionally.

I’m always trying to improve my diet specifically for testosterone and boners but it’s difficult as I can’t eat much as I have a host of food intolerances
 

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You can order Liquid Ionic Boron off of Amazon.. It will lower your Sex Hormone Binding Globulin(SHBG), thus freeing up the Testosterone in your body allowing it to become more bio available to it.
That’s a good idea, thanks.

As for this experiment, taking Chocolate and Fish Oil this morning didn’t seem to improve erections that much. They were about the same so maybe it was the HGW in combo
 

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Myself personally, I don't worry about trying to find a natural alternative to viagra because generic viagra (sildenafil) is dirt cheap.

Sildenafil + zinc + L-Arginine + L-Lysine will turn you to a 17yo boy again.
right on the money. Here in Mexico the pharmacy sells high quality sildenafil. 5 pillsx100mg each for around $200pesos. ($9dlls). I just slice one in half.
50mg is all you need. I have even given some to a friend in cali. He always asks for more.
No side effects and lethal bloodflow to the d1ck. Sharper than a surgeon's scalpel.

Just eat healthy ,drink atleast 3liters of water x day, avoid refined sugar, take zinc picolinate and pop a pill when you want to really lay the pipe down
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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right on the money. Here in Mexico the pharmacy sells high quality sildenafil. 5 pillsx100mg each for around $200pesos. ($9dlls). I just slice one in half.
50mg is all you need. I have even given some to a friend in cali. He always asks for more.
No side effects and lethal bloodflow to the d1ck. Sharper than a surgeon's scalpel.

Just eat healthy ,drink atleast 3liters of water x day, avoid refined sugar, take zinc picolinate and pop a pill when you want to really lay the pipe down
I’ll have to try that. I’m just worried about priapism. I’ve had several in my life and don’t want to damage my D permanently
 
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To add to the above: ^^^ What I use/consume, and the effects.....

First a little background: 10 yrs ago I was in a long-faded marriage - I'd given up on myself, piled on weight, etc, etc... I was a physical mess.
No sex during the last 4 yrs, I had no interest - Even if I'd wanted to, erections were 'rubbery' and didn't last long enough anyway.
Then I had a blood-pressure scare (stupidly high numbers)
My Doc laid it on the line, and it really sh*t me up! Caused me to re-think life in general... so...
I moved out and got divorced, sorted my diet, dropped from about 295lbs to around 180lbs over the next year or so...

These days, I'm the healthiest I've been since my 30s
• I avoid refined sugars - The lag effect from that stuff is terrible.
• Vit-C with zinc - Multi-minerals that include Boron - Omega-3 fish oil capsule
• Most days I'll drink a glass of pomegranate juice, or a sugar-free fizzy drink that contains L-Arginine (I'm halfway through one right now).
• Every weekend I juice a watermelon (including the pips and rind), add some lime or lemon juice (because watermelon alone is a bland taste), enough for a small glass each morning for the week.
• I've now come off most of the B-P medication, but I continue with the Calcium-channel inhibitor (Amlodipine) because it works by opening blood vessels (The same thing that blue V-Pills do, but a less dramatic effect) - As a by-product.... CC-inhibitors are also a good defence against getting seriously ill from the Covid-bug.
• Occasional VERY dark chocolate.... If I think sex is on the cards that night.

Results...
The hardest boners I've had since my 30s - Morning wood is back with a vengeance (it had stopped during my late 40s)
And when I get down to business, I no longer need any 'downtime' between rounds - So long as there's a willing woman around... once it's 'up', it stays up until I choose to stop (or go to sleep)
Much to the surprise.... and pleasure.... of women who are usually at least 10 yrs younger - One woman of 29 (when I was 54) actually thought I'd popped a 'V' pill (I hadn't)


* I've highlighted what I think are the most relevant things.
Just my own personal experience.... and what seems to work for me.
It’s amazing what happens to your sex drive after you dump that ***** huh?
 

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It’s amazing what happens to your sex drive after you dump that ***** huh?
Yes indeed. Sugar has been kept to an extreme minimal in my life really for the past 18 x years. When I do have it, it fvcks me up for several days. Don't eat much dark chocolate. Will have to try that.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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