“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Did I come on too strong?

King Of Nowhere

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:p :)
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How is this coming on too strong? Maybe in the 1920's.

The only thing you're doing wrong is texting so goddamn much. God I hate when people have these back and forth text conversations.

Even if you wanted to send a random text to make her laugh, you could have just stopped after the Will Ferrell joke.

Look, all you have to do is say, "I think you could use a drink. Let's do happy hour this week." Or if you don't drink, replace that with bowling/hiking/whatever.

Just stop playing around on text and get this thing into the real world.
 

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What did she say after you said will you make me desert?
And what did you reply?
When she said when are you coming over would have been a great opportunity to ask her out or set something up.
I don't rely text chicks much I wate a couple of hours between txts some times because I am busy and I hate ah, lame random text when you have nothing to talk about. You don't haf to do that but just act a bit more busy like you have things todo not just sitting around texting every 10 seconds.
But no I don't think you came on too strong maybe you didn't come on strong enough.
Slick..
 

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Iceberg said:
How is this coming on too strong? Maybe in the 1920's.

The only thing you're doing wrong is texting so goddamn much. God I hate when people have these back and forth text conversations.

Even if you wanted to send a random text to make her laugh, you could have just stopped after the Will Ferrell joke.

Look, all you have to do is say, "I think you could use a drink. Let's do happy hour this week." Or if you don't drink, replace that with bowling/hiking/whatever.

Just stop playing around on text and get this thing into the real world.

Kids text. Never heard of Will Ferrial. Always helps to know the name. A reason you shouldn't text if you cant spell. why would this be strong? Seems awfully light to me.
 
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Iceberg said:
How is this coming on too strong? Maybe in the 1920's.

The only thing you're doing wrong is texting so goddamn much. God I hate when people have these back and forth text conversations.

Even if you wanted to send a random text to make her laugh, you could have just stopped after the Will Ferrell joke.

Look, all you have to do is say, "I think you could use a drink. Let's do happy hour this week." Or if you don't drink, replace that with bowling/hiking/whatever.

Just stop playing around on text and get this thing into the real world.
Iceberg hit the nail right on the head. Texting and the internet is cool IF you can quickly transition to the phone and an in-person meeting, quickly.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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