"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Did I call this one right?

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DonS said:
Edger, you have an ego that is not attractive. I bet you are throwing out a controlling vibe that is creeping chicks out.

What kind of ego are we talking about? If you're talking about an ego in the sense that I believe/know and act like I'm the prize, then yes, you're right, I have a big ego. And can you elaborate on the "controlling vibe" part? I personally don't see anything as far as a "controlling vibe", but I'm listening here with an open-mind.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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evesman said:
Yet you are reluctant to change, since to do so is to conform and hence act like other 'stupid' people.
You didn't read my post thoroughly. I don't keep my hair long because I don't wish to conform, I keep it long because I think it looks "cool", has sex appeal, and adds character to a guy. It has nothing to do with conforming. I actually think people who dress or sport their hair a certain way for the purpose of being a non-conformist, are idiots. You should look a certain way because YOU LIKE that look, not do it for the purpose of being a "non-conformist".
 

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decades said:
yeah you can pull with the pony tail. but it would be much easier if you cleaned up your presentation. However, I think you would really benefit from a PUA boot camp where you could learn some solid club game.
I have to ask you guys, what is it exactly about long hair that you don't like? I'm curious.

And I wanted to also mention, this "clean cut" thing that gets thrown around a lot has nothing to do with hair length. You can still be a "clean cut" guy and have long hair. As long as you take care of your hair, and it looks presentable, you're fine, there's no problem. You might as well then question whether or not women are clean cut, since most of them have long hair.
 
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