"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Did I call this one right?

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DonS said:
Edger, you have an ego that is not attractive. I bet you are throwing out a controlling vibe that is creeping chicks out.

What kind of ego are we talking about? If you're talking about an ego in the sense that I believe/know and act like I'm the prize, then yes, you're right, I have a big ego. And can you elaborate on the "controlling vibe" part? I personally don't see anything as far as a "controlling vibe", but I'm listening here with an open-mind.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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evesman said:
Yet you are reluctant to change, since to do so is to conform and hence act like other 'stupid' people.
You didn't read my post thoroughly. I don't keep my hair long because I don't wish to conform, I keep it long because I think it looks "cool", has sex appeal, and adds character to a guy. It has nothing to do with conforming. I actually think people who dress or sport their hair a certain way for the purpose of being a non-conformist, are idiots. You should look a certain way because YOU LIKE that look, not do it for the purpose of being a "non-conformist".
 

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decades said:
yeah you can pull with the pony tail. but it would be much easier if you cleaned up your presentation. However, I think you would really benefit from a PUA boot camp where you could learn some solid club game.
I have to ask you guys, what is it exactly about long hair that you don't like? I'm curious.

And I wanted to also mention, this "clean cut" thing that gets thrown around a lot has nothing to do with hair length. You can still be a "clean cut" guy and have long hair. As long as you take care of your hair, and it looks presentable, you're fine, there's no problem. You might as well then question whether or not women are clean cut, since most of them have long hair.
 
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