"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Did I blow it?

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Well i went to a party last weekend, and made out with some chick, after that she kept pulling me into other rooms to make out with me and stuff, we made out the whole night, she gave me her #, and my friend gave me her sn, so i was talking to her online and we were supposed to go out this weekend, but she made plans so yesterday I asked her what the deal was if it was a one time thing or if shes still interested, and she said one time thingso i said that was cool, and said i still wanted to chill with her and stuff, did i blow it? like is there any way of reviving this? :confused:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Don't act needy. Damn.:down:

But hey, EVERYBODY welcome our newest DJ at this time.:up:
 
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not suck a bad post! for your first...
 
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