"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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did i blow it?

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ok last nite was winter formal thing the all girl school has

my date and i sat talked all nite

i think we both had a great time

heres the prob

i fell asleep in the car (her mom gave me a ride home)
im not sure how long i was out
im guessing 3min

did that blow it?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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If you guys had a good time, and you dozed off in the car, I'm sure thats no big deal my friend. Now, if YOU had a good time and SHE didn't, then thats not a good thing.
 
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If she had a good time and you feel asleep in the car not only did you not blow it she is going to spend the next week going "Was I too borring? Does he not like me? Only if I had bigger tits then he wouldn't fall sleep".
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

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lol you worry about it?? why would that blow it? trust me i have done alot worse and girls dont really care about these little things. Being DJ we worry too much, thats what you should know, ignore it and carry on DJing her.
 
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Thats funny dude you fell asleep in your friends car. So what make into an experience to laugh about it later. Just cause you made a small mistake dosnt mean that its over.
 
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ok ty guys

and i got some other good news a day l8r she had one of her friends ask if a really liked her and i just kno this girl was behind it
 
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