Did I approach right?

[jackie_legs]

Well im pretty knew but lately I have been reading tons of stuff. I have a question. well yesterday I was at the bookstore looking at books and I notice a very attractive chick, so I stand about 4 feet away from her and say so is there anything good? she looks at me and smiles and says well kinda. we talk for like 3 minutes. and so I have to go so I say well you should give me your number so we can talk later. But she says im sorry but I have a b/f so I say alright and just walk off. I dont feel like a loser or anything but do you think I did the approach right?

 

[Panda 2000]

Why not? You opened, talked, asked for a number, you showed you had the guts and didn't mind not getting it. More power to you my man! Of course the exact details of the convo and all are hidden to us, but I'd say you did pretty good generally.

 

[jackie_legs]

well thanks I feel good hearing that. anyways my bad this is how the conversation went.

(we are at the bookstore)

me- so is there anything good to read? ( I look at her with a smile)

HB8-Well sort of.

me- ( I notice she has a cooking book) so are you pretty good at cooking?

hb8- well sort of, im pretty good at cooking mexican food.

me-thats cool. I love mexican food. so whats your favorite mexican food to make?

hb8- probably tamalies, do you like tamalies?

me- I love them, I bet yours taste pretty good?

hb8- (laughs) my mom says there pretty good.

me- I bet they are. ( I look at my watch)

me-well I have to go but you should give me your number?
hb8- oh im soryy I actually have a b/f?
me- I say alright,well have a good day. (then I walk off.)

thats how the conversation went. I know it doesnt see to long but for some reason it felt like it was awhile.

 

[Distant Light]

3. you tryed to number close her so quick, don't try and rush through unless ur in a rush (bus stops, or train stop, or late somewhere)

 

[jackie_legs]

cool thanks then. so next time shoould I not ask to many questions?

 

[everywomanshero]

Good that you attempted to have a conversation. Too many guys try to PU before they can even have a conversation.

BUT

Yes all those questions and saying I love this, I love that. You sound like a nice guy loser, and nice guys losers never get a woman until she already has kids with another guy.

I will now describe a successful bookstore PU

M: (Dating for dummies book held up for her to see) Hey, whats your sign? PAUSE Come here often?
H: Laughing
M: some banter
M: Hey, I need your opinion on something <Spells Opener>
H: engages in conversation about wicca, spells, etc
M: Do Palmistry and keep holding her hand afterwards while we talk
M: Tell story about a triad couple I know. By now I have gotten several IOIs
M Would you ever do something like that
H: Yes
M: My gf, who dances at <XYZ>, really wants to try being with another woman. I can tell you're an opened minded person that isn't afraid to have some fun in life. You should join us at <XYZ> for some drinks and just to see how we'd all get along.
H: Enters phone # into phone and we agree on a good time to meet.

Theres more to it than that, obviously, but that;'s the gist of a successful bookstore PU I did a while back. It's easy and I wasn't even really trying to make it work. Just threw some stuff out there and it worked. I skipped a lot of sequences but it still worked because of my high state and being reasonably fun. You see I totally screwed that PU attempt up, I didn't do nearly enough but it still worked. So you don't always have to be 100% correct. TRhis was a beautiful girl by the way. Tall, slender and a pretty face.

Also you must do these PU attempts a few hundred to a thousand times before you loose the weird sounds in your voic, the trembling hands, and the nervous ticks. Knowing about them is good so you can start to shut them down but without doing several hundred or more approaches it will still manifest itself. So you need to approach at least 50 women per week. That should be easy to do in your spare time.