"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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So today was going really well, I was one on one with this smoking 8.5 filipina chick. I did kino, (knee to knee, touch on arm, high five) lots of smiles , laughs, heavy sustained eye contact, and lots of lip licking from both of us. We sitting really close side to side. And she was being my hot spanish tutor

But out of nowhere she pulls out a zinger, I think she said something like "So why are u picking up girls?", so I said "Hey, ur the one hitting on me."

Then BOOM, her smile was gone. It just turned weird, I could tell the energy has changed. She give me like a disgusted look. But tried to ignored it and recover, but I know I lost it.

We continued talking, but I could tell she wasn't laughing that much anymore, a lot less eye contact.

So what went wrong? I busted her and teased her. Everything was going great, then it was gone.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I don't get what she was asking you
 

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She pulled out a zinger, and said to me "So why are u picking up girls?". This came outta nowhere? I know I was getting attraction, and IOI's.
 

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you lost value somehow. it's obviously something w/ your response but I can't tell what. could've been miscalibration, maybe your subcommunication sucked, maybe she felt like you were trying to be a **** and put her down

it's a lame response anyway. all it does is try to maintain value out of context. you guys are giving each other IOI's, she knows you're hitting on her and is receptive to it, she's playign along and enjoying it. then you imply you're apatehtic about her, even though both of you have been gaming each other the whole time

actually I think that is miscalibration
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Women from other cultures don't always receive the C&F and the teasing as well as most American woman for some reason, in my experience. That could be something to consider.
 
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